Does anyone else have “email social anxiety”? Not with writing emails that have to do with content/work I did, but when I’m “just checking in” and doing vaguely unsaid social things I’ve never understood well.
I feel super awkward and read too into things, it takes me 30+ min for a simple friendly email to a manager or above and I get worked up about it.

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Same. I feel like it is because the socialization is so intentional. Like we are only socializing because we feel we may need something down the line vs. a natural interaction.

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