Those that have had large wedding parties- let’s say more than 8 bridesmaids and 8 groomsmen- did you regret it? Or was it worth it?

likefunny
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

Unpopular opinion: but if I could do it again, I would not have a wedding party. I would have invited friends to a bachelorette and to get ready with me in the morning instead, while cutting them loose from having to buy a certain dress/get hair and makeup done/have to come to a rehearsal dinner/have to stand up with us. What I wanted was time with my friends, not to burden my friends.

likehelpful

Agree, in hindsight I would’ve done this. Having a group I was worried about keeping everyone happy and entertained all morning when I could’ve been more present and spent time without the pressure of trying to coordinate so many people and parts that go with it.

like

I haven’t had my wedding yet, but I was in the same situation as you. I was overwhelmed at the thought of having to get transportation, flowers, a rehearsal dinner, etc. for that many people. Instead, I’m just having a MOH, and then everyone else is going to be a wedding VIP. I will have special seating for them at the ceremony and give the women wrist corsages. I also asked the women to wear the same color (navy), and we are still going to do a special picture time with them. But this way they can save on a dress potentially and don’t have to come to the rehearsal and such. I consider it a win/win.

like

We have 9 and 9, which is tough but as long as nobody is problematic you should be fine

I had a very big wedding party and I loved it. I wouldn't change it for a thing.

Related Posts

Is FDD similar to audit where there are different industries? Like Financial service/ healthcare / NFP

like

What is the general CTC range at AM and DM level in Deloitte in Tax

like

Hi fishes, Anyone can refer me to NCS group?
yoe: 3
tech stack: java, spring boot, microservices

NCS

Been Interested in working at a FAANG for the past 5 years. I am a Certified Scrum Master, Agile Coach, and Product Owner. I never see many roles in those areas at most FAANG companies ?? Can someone help me out ? Is it a different title at those companies and are referrals needed ??

like

Hi HR Professionals! I am revising our current employment application form. Per SHRM, I was just curious if any HR Professionals completely removed the following fields: social security number, recommend salary, graduation dates, military discharge info, race, maiden name like (Ms. Mrs. Ms), & criminal history questions. I was just curious what other Employers/HR Professional have done. Any information is greatly appreciated. Thank you!

like

Does anyone know any reliable career coach or consultant? I desperately want to streamline my career path. Experience: Freelance Professor: 3 Years (Multiple coaching classes in Mumbai) Home Tuitions: 2 years UPSC Preparation: 2 years (Gave several other exam attempts) SSB Conference out, 2019 Eventually ended up in corporate due to life situations (assumable) Currently Trainer & QA Lead with 5.4 LPA. Expected an L4 but it is still being delayed even after a strong doc to present.

like

Hi Fishes

What will be my inhand salary after deductions?

Thanks

Post Photo
like
like

I am 29F and earning 13LPA. I have been working for 4 years of which 3.5 years I had very low pay and close to 0 savings. I have been able to save 6L now.

My investments below:
* Elss funds - 2 (total 1.5L annually)
* Large cap mutual funds - 6 (total 40K sip per month) current portfolio of 4L
* FDs - 2 of 25K each
*Medical insurance - company provided

Can someone advice if this is a good investment plan for future? What can I do better? Do I need another Insurance? Where else to invest?

likehelpful

Why does Netcracker Technology Corp. take a long time to release the offer letter after HR discussion?

like

Anyone from coforge kolkata location for UK based client?Coforge howz work life balance and job security in coforge.

like

What percentage of your monthly income do you actually see in your check, your net pay? Basically, what percentage of your check goes towards all the different deduction? I get 50% of my gross income deducted.

like

Hi! I had an interview for a job with the DOL that I applied for on usajobs. The interview was exactly 3 weeks ago today and they have called my references. I haven’t heard any updates and I know it can be a very slow process but do you think I should reach out to the interviewer via email to follow up or no? Thanks!

like

I’ve been in my current position (Bookkeeper) for 4 years now. I’m highly interested in taking the PHR, and I’m wondering if I would qualify for the 4 year HR professional job requirement to be eligible to test for the certificate. I work for a small business, therefore I do all the on boarding paperwork/payroll. Any advice is appreciated.

like

Which of the Big 4 is best for a new MPH grad looking for their first time role healthcare related, esp project management focused? (Assume east coast)

like

I accepted a 95k systems engineer role in VA with KBR and is currently going thru a clearance.(MAY START DATE)
Northrop offers me 92k w/ 3k sign on which is 30 min from home in MD for an associate systems role. They also want to give me a clearance but it will start as an interim so I can work sooner than may. MY DILEMMA: Kbr states that they know I need money now so I can accept an offer with Northrop to see if I like it until may.BUT can I have 2 security clearances running at the same time?

like

Anyone at Fried Frank know what day bonuses are usually paid on?

like

Folks, need 💟 , please help. Thanks in advance 😊

Post Photo
like

What's the level 6 and level 7 pay in Accenture?
I am from product tech background, 13yrs + exp.

Accenture

Larsen & Toubro Infotech Openings for PEGA CLSA at LTI
Larsen & Toubro Infotech
DM for referral

like

Additional Posts in The Wedding Bowl

Budget friendly bridesmaid proposals if you’d still like to give a small token in addition to a card?

like

Anyone do their own bridal makeup? Any advice or thoughts?

like

Anyone unsure of what to do for bridesmaids “proposals?” I want them to get excited and feel special but when I see how much money I’d be spending on things like custom totes or mugs I’m like is it really worth it? I’d send cards but most of my bridal party I see pretty regularly/they live nearby so it seems odd to send them something when I live down the street. Help! 😅

like

I’m excited for my wedding but it’s almost 9 months away and I started planning it over a year ago. However, whenever I’m around friends/family it’s the only thing people want to talk to me about. It’s constant and generally there’s not many updates to give & I’d just rather talk about other things. I work full time & I’m in school right now so I’m stressed about those things and I don’t know how to communicate that I’d just rather not talk about the wedding without sounding ungrateful/happy

like

Suggestions for jewelry to wear with this dresss?!

Post Photo
like

We’re having a destination wedding and I feel selfish/silly for taking a honeymoon after. But I feel like if we don’t do it then we will put it off and it won’t really feel like a “honeymoon”. What would you do?

like

What is your total “wedding look” budget/est. spend? (Everything including dress, make up, jewelry, shoes, outfit changes, accessories, etc.). I have put so much emphasis on my looks (no regrets) and I actually just tallied up my spend and my head almost exploded. Frankly just seeking a little validation that I am not the only crazy person out there 🙃

like

How much did everyone spend on their wedding planner? We’re planning a Fall wedding in Europe with ~80 people and want a full service planner, have been quoted 9-15K and want to see if this is reasonable! TIA

like

Did you have someone doing hair/makeup for bridesmaids or did you have them do their own? And were you glad you made the decision you did? I’ve been in weddings both ways and trying to decide what I want to do

like

How many things are you guys adding to your registry? Are they at various price points?

like

Are you paying for bridesmaid hair and make-up? Was a little sticker shocked $200 per person before gratuity, just adds up quickly with that many people😬 Not requiring it but wanted to offer it if they want to be more glammed up, but now seeing online that’s it’s considered quite rude to not cover it for them? Maybe just cover one and they can do the other if they want? Don’t want to be rude if it’s expected but also don’t want to blow our budget… any perspective on the “norm” appreciated!

like

Is it normal to feel depressed/lonely during wedding planning? I almost feel like I can’t talk about it since other people aren’t engaged and I feel like I’m rubbing it in their faces talking about it. So I have to keep everything to myself and it’s kind of stressful

like

For those who have already had their weddings, what advice do you have? Anything you could change?

like

How much did you spend on your wedding? Do you regret it? Also please share the location of your wedding if possible. Thank you!

like

Looking for craft ideas for the first evening of a Bachelorette weekend getaway. All ideas welcome!

like

Is a hair and makeup trial really necessary? It seems like such a waste of money.

like

Wedding planner asked us about color palettes and we truly cannot pick/commit to any colors. Did anyone have a similar problem? Any advice?

like

So, we have a wedding registry and my fiance and I would really like people to stick to gifting us what's on that registry. Yet, people keep asking what they should get us. The thought of dealing with a ton of crap we don't want or need is stressing me out. How can I politely tell people to only buy what's on the registry?

like

Can I do a mother of bride dress appointment the same time after my bride fitting? It'll just be my mom coming to the appointment. Or should I do hers right after I finish my appointment?

like

Tux budget NYC?

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal