Tips for returning to work after paternity leave? I return in two weeks after what will be five weeks off.

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Same boat... following! The advice I heard is to not try and jump 100% back in right away. I’m staying off the road for the time being and taking an easier/more family friendly role.

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Leave work in the car when you get home. Sleep early. Exercise instead of TV.

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It took me like. 02 seconds to feel right back at it. 🤣😂

You'll be fine.

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