Ugh Libby's family is just as toxic as Andrei!

My fiancé brought up threesomes twice within a couple days. We have also watched porn together and she always picks threesome videos. How do I tell if she actually wants to do it or if it’s some kind of test or if she just brought it up because she thought I would be into it?

What made you realize that your SO was someone you saw forever with?

A friend of mine told me I should have Narcan on hand for my boyfriend who does coke sometimes. I'm firmly against it. He knows I hate when he does it and I don't want the emotional weight of carrying it around in my purse. Like, if he's going to do that, he should carry his own damn Narcan. Am the asshole? She thinks I'm being cruel since it can be lifesaving and you can get it for free.

Moved to industry in a diff city. I’m feeling really lonely. My husband has been supportive but I miss our ppl. I keep trying to make plans but ppl keep cancelling/changing. Tips to make new friends?

I have pretty strong social phobia and am worried about making friends. I'm going to be working for an engineering company so I imagine I don't have to be really up on the latest trends or anything but how can I talk to people without making it sound unnatural?

I'm an engineer, and I feel like my manager is more of a friend than anything else. We talk about our personal lives, and I feel like it's hard to be completely honest with her when she's so casual with me. I don't want to lose our friendship, but I also need to be able to talk honestly with someone who has the power to help me grow professionally. Is there a way to have both?

What games, toys, or science kits would you recommend for a kid who’s showing an interest in the sciences?

I started searching for work at anther firm. I accepted an offer for the things I am looking for. I am freaking out over the change even though I know moving on is the best thing for me and my family. I feel so anxious. I'm sad for leaving coworkers now friends. I'm sad that the firm I am leaving let me down.
I will keep pushing forward but the anxiety of leaving is overpowering the excitement of new things to come (things I asked 4). My eyes r tearing rt now...what is wrong w/ me?

Bf broke up with me after 3 years. 26 & feel like I’m going to be alone forever 😔 I want to beg for the relationship back but I know I will regret it. I can’t wait for this storm to pass

I feel like being a consultant has made my standards for finding a significant other go up astronomically lol now I expect them to be a similar standard as my coworkers which are smart, pretty, social and also same level of religiousness as me. I understand why everyone struggles to find an SO now

My roommate just found out that her mom back home (India) got tested positive for covid, and has been feeling very low. For folks who went through something similar, what was something that helped you feel better. Trying me be a helpful roommate

Does anyone have experience with getting rid of their timeshare? My dad convinced me to go in with him when I was 21…horrible decision I could ever make.

I loved this woman. We kinda ended up falling apart, i really miss her. Making some effort and talking might resolve and we could get back together. She said we can give another shot. Pros: she is a good person, cute, smart. Cons: temper issues, big spender and money management issues. I couldn’t move on but couldn’t make a decision. Any advise is appreciated.

Don’t think I can do IBD anymore. mom just had a heart attack and my fiancé just cheated on me. I can’t handle the stress, I wanted this for so long; but I don’t know what I can do nxt. Help

Does anyone sometimes just want to shake their clients??? It's not my fault you decided to have kids with an asshole, please don't scream at me when you can't kick them out of your life because they're mean to you.

This pandemic has made me realize I really want to live full time on a lake and work remote from there. What approach would you take to make this happen? Aside from marrying a rich, 70 year old and becoming a trophy wife...

I moved to SF 2 months ago, but spent 4 days a week in NY for the client until now . I'm back in SF, but don't really have any friends. Howd those who moved to a new city meet people? I'm 22&F

** Really need your advise**
So my gf 26 and I 27 (m) broke up a month back. We booked a concert long time ago and that’s up next week. Our breakup was mutual but this girl is special. I have tried over and over again to rekindle but she said it’s done. The concert is next week and I really want her there. Should I ask her one last time or should I let her go?

Been actively applying to jobs with no bites. Feeling pretty disheartened because really want to relocate closer to family. Going to keep trudging!

Anyone take Athletic Greens? Do you recommend it?

What is LPA location premium allowance mentioned in offer letter?? Is it variable part which we get end of year? Or will it be part of monthly salary?

Can I get some likes please!!! I’m new here

Hi Fishes,

My CTC is low as per IT market standards and considering the YOE. I have scheduled a call to discuss with HR on the same. Can anybody pls help or give suggestions, what all solid point I can put or convince HR pls.?

Is it good to join as project manager in hcl with 12 yoe?. My top priority is for job security and wlb.

I have an interview at Deloitte US for Oracle EBS developer position, what kind of questions should I expect ?

Does it mean anything specifically when a company/firm reposts their position? I went on a phone screen and it went really well (so I thought) and got the interview with a AmLaw200 firm. I thought the interview went okay but then 8 days later no contact and I saw that they reposted the position. I’ve had my position for almost 8 months and I’m ready to leave but that’s another story.

Has anyone used HireRight for their background checks and how long did it take?

When will we go back to in person and traveling again😩

Is anyone willing to provide insight into their PE benefits package? Vacation days, 401K match, personal/sick days, other random perks (meals/cell phone/gym)? Trying to evaluate a recent offer!

Can anyone with direct knowledge about VILLAGEMD let me know what they think about the company's headcount planning strategies (hiring blitz vs strategically planned out). And what the culture is … more

What would be the CTC for technical lead role?
They are giving 15 percent variable as well.

Will I get 100 percent variable on quarterly basis or not?
What's you experience with Infy?

Anyone work for USAA as a bi adjuster and doesn’t mind sharing there yoe and salary? I heard good things about them and am considering applying. I’m currently at 76k with my current company 8.5 yoe.

Long: associates nattering about rumored layoffs

Short: actual layoffs

Will the current economic environment have more risk for PE, or upside (given opportunity for “cheap” deals)?

Just wondering how this will all translate to hiring at the Associate level

It seems to me that engineers would make some of the best farmers because they could figure out the most efficient way to use land for agriculture

Do you think Stephanie is a pain killer addict?

Does anyone know anyone who was casted for the show/spin-off? Looking for casting @interview tips. Thanks.

I cant stand Debbie... Is it just me?

The casting director this season needs an Emmy.

Update: In his IG stories, Paul states that Karine has filed a restraining order preventing him from contacting her or Pierre. On IG, he also posted what looks to be Karine’s statement to the police. The statement does have explicit descriptions of DV/SV and may be triggering, so I did not include it here but you can easily find it on his account if wanted. I hope they all get the help they need.

I think Michael and Natalie have a fake storyline. I don’t get what their issues are other than Michael saying “we have a lot of issues”

I want to punch Debbie in the face... and I don’t even like colteee

Welcome to the 90 Day Fiance Fanatics bowl! Here is our official first thread focusing on the latest episode: The Other Way S2E9 Crossing the Line.

-Were you impressed with Ariela’s Ethiopian hospital tour?
-Should Deavan leave Jihoon and go back to the US?
-Are Armando and Kenneth the cutest couple in 90 Day history?
-Should Melyza forgive Tim for his infidelity?
-Is Brittany being disrespectful by insisting on her American customs?

Did anyone see those big bucket of tears from Jihoon, and Devan’s response? Devan needs to go back home with her mom and leave Jihoon with his mom.