What are the biggest signs that someone is not a good person, but they’re pretending to be good?

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Claiming to be Christian while voting to harm people and supporting a known racist.

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My devout christian friend told me casually that she would never live in a black neighborhood or be friends with someone jewish. What makes her think they want her near them? Lol.

When they are "nice" but not "kind." Niceness is surface-level, politeness and manners. Kindness is deeper, caring for others, helping out even when it doesn't directly benefit them, and telling you things you might not want to hear but need to. Does what they say just make you feel good, or does it match up with their actions once you've left the room?

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Their words don’t match their actions.

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They don't like or celebrate your wins

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They talk about themselves constantly and don’t make time to listen to others.

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This one, not really listening to what you’re saying but and then going back to making it about themselves…just screams a general lack of empathy

Overly religious typically. Constantly quoting the Bible. I’m religious myself but even I get annoyed when people are constantly quoting the Bible and looking down on people.

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I used to work with an higher up who whenever he received any pushback on anything would take out his bible, put his hand on it and close his eyes like he was letting it guide his answer.

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When your gut and intuition says so

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When someone says they don’t talk or follow politics 99% of the time they do and they just know you’re not going to like the answer.

But most importantly it’s how people act when money is at stake. Who does your performative progressive boss lay off? Does he still drive the ferrari to the office when he says money is tight?

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Not true.

Many were taught not to speak about politics, religion and money so they are just responding to how they were taught.

Most that have wanted to talk politics at work were over the top, emotional and irrational. No matter what side they claimed to be on.

Those that tried quickly learned not to discuss this topic with them again

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When they don't put their cart back in the cart return at the store.
When they treat animals poorly.
When they treat people that are lower on the food chain than them like dirt.
When they don't respect other peoples beliefs, cultures, religion or families

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Politics

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They don't listen to others.

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Good vs Bad as a classification for a person is sub-optimal thinking.

Life operates more clearly on the law that you reap what you sow.

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They are in a marketing or sales role.

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When they can’t control their emotions. I had a fling with a guy who pretended to be so kind and sensitive and is legit the scariest person I’ve ever been involved with. He was always waxing poetic about spending with his grandparents, cooking for friends, and then would go on to exhibit the scariest behavior I’ve ever encountered.

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* They eat meat
* They shave the sides of their heads
* Facial hair
* Sports
* Pretending to be religious but voting and acting to support racism and other hate.

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Why does it seem like Creativity 1 hates Christian farmers?

Abiding by wokeism

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They tell you repeatedly what a great Christian they are. If they were, it would be readily apparent.

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My christian friends do a lot of unholy things lol.

@SDM1 love that POV

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Not treating everyone equally, sometimes people only treat people well unless they can get something out of them in return

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blatant disrespect for others thoughts, feelings, struggles, etc. Could be indifference or dismissal but bad people dont respect others and it will show.

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I have joined IBM and resigned within 50 days.
Reason: project I was allocated not good and I initially rejected project but they forcefully moved to the project.I have asked multiple times to replace the project after that I have resigned.
Now manager is threatening me that I will be placed under no hire to IBM.
Is it ethical?

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I have a LOT of credit card debt. It has just grown over time and I can’t find my way out. I’m considering debt consolidation, specifically a company called National Debt Relief which seems legit but I’m just so hesitant because I’m scared to make my situation worse. Or a personal loan to pay off all the CC debt and then have a smaller all in one payment. I’m intelligent and I work in finance, it’s so embarrassing. HELP.

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Can I claim hra for less than one lakh per FY and Maximum housing loan benefits?

The rental place and property under loan are in same city.. Parents stay in rental ( I pay rent) and I have purchased new flat in same city for myself.

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Anyone interviewed with Pfizer recently in Account Management? Any tips?

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Hi all, I’m trying to transition to the insurance industry and begin as a claim adjuster. I have a virtual interview for progressive and a phone call interview with AAA coming up soon. Do you have any tips for me?

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Hi everyone,
I relocated with my family to Ireland recently, one month ago, and while I got a lot of screening calls with recruiters, I did not hear back from any of them after our interview. I am still on the process of getting my work permit and I am very clear about this during the interviews, but I suspect that this is the reason why I am not getting any call back. Any tips on the first screening call with recruiters? Should I touch base with them after our interviews?

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Recent immigrant and about to buy a car - insurance company said it would take 2 weeks to process my application. Is this normal? In the US I insured my car with one 10min phone call, so was a bit surprised

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Found out I prob won't get my dream job ("waitlisted") and literally cried for an hour (I know I am a loser). I guess I didn't realize how much I hate my audit job lol. How have people gotten over rejection?

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“The shaft is not always welcome, but but hole always is.”

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Alright, Fishbowl - whats the juiciest gossip you heard this week at work?

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Just to be 100% clear, this entire platform is anonymous, right?

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“Circumcision makes your dick look like it’s wearing a tailored suit. Circumcised is James Bond. Uncircumcised is James Out-On-Bond"

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“Bad news, we’ve had to eliminate the position that we were supposed to finalize your promotion to. Good news, your current position is still available and the prestige of your current role is now increased”
Not the money, not the title, bonus or anything, but oh the prestige.

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So a higher up made a new rule that for a service we offer , we have to offer it to the customers three times and If they say no a manager has to get involved and document. it is this not wrong?

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“Those glasses don’t make you look younger, they make you look older—but slightly more cool.”

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“We had complimenting genitalia.”

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“I just want to see her cry” — People! Wtf!

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How you came into the company will define your path. That’s why you’ll never be successful switching departments.

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So overheard after work:

I left a company a while back and a coworker of mine that also left just informed me that one of the C level execs has an SEC decision against him for embezzling several million.

This was from before I worked there...

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"Can you make it feel more like blueberries taste?" ACCOUNT TO CREATIVE

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What type of background check do HF/PE/VC forms so these days? Employment, education and felonies are a given (I think) but is fingerprinting and drug testing still in the mix? How about credit score?

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I'll stick around for the bonus but want to make my side hustle my main career next year.
The side hustle is Scentsy...

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Thoughts on “special” salary grades. I just found out the VP I was offered is not a grade 12 like most comparable roles (verified). Also not an 11, but an 11A. Slightly higher than an 11, a good bit lower than a 12. All due to the fact that it’s a leap from my current position. Why should that matter…..shouldn’t it pay what it should pay if I am selected, rather that curving down towards my current rate?

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"We hear your responses to our anonymous pulse survey, and we understand you all overwhelmingly think our team structure org needs to change. We understand it's not necessarily working well—but here's why we're NOT going to change it."
Why ask us if you really don't care?

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“business advice: open the attachment” -RHONY playing in background

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"She's like 30, but doesn't look super old"

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“Just came back from Hawaii, it was beautiful. Lots of good wine”-MD.
Tired analysts: 😒😒

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