🐠 what has your experience been on indian matrimonial sites? cant seem to wrap my head around the whole process. People take nos., never call, or talk for a bit then vanish. Curious to hear M/F🐠 exp

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But my point here is more on “matrimony” sites - are folks really serious on that for a marriage or treat it like another dating app - the whole process is so convoluted these days; very hard to figure out who’s seriously looking vs. who is a playing the ground.

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No clue, never been on one but I've heard that there are a lot of fake profiles on those apps. Also learnt from friends that they ghost people as soon as they realize someone doesn't meet even one criteria they have on their list because they believe there are more fish in the sea

We have a desi consultants dating site but it isn’t v Active

There is?!

Here you go!
https://joinfishbowl.com/bowl_hde3za

Yeah - not at all active! 🙄

I have had very mixed experiences. There are many who treat these sites like any other dating app. They are the worst kind. It’s due to them that people who are actually serious about the process find themselves losing faith. I have had a series of such encounters, specially in US, and I eventually started ghosting guys even if they seemed genuine. I think it’s all about both of them being in a right and ready mindset to take things seriously and continue making the effort to get to know each other.

Sounds like an idea for new business venture..

My friend told me he creates fake profiles on desi matrimonial sites just to “check the market"

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