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Completely irrelevant still imp for me

Pls advise if someone can

After 8 yrs of relationship he is saying parents are not agree cannot marry....till yesterday he was like I'll never leave you..now he wants to break everything

I can't imager my life without him..what should I do

No one can feel my pain..pls don't make fun of me..

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Run far away while you can.
He's not the right guy, Sister.

There will be lot of diplomatic replies here saying how you both should work it out. Be careful from people selling Bollywood endings.
Someone who can't stand for you, may not really be the one who you should plan to spend your whole life with.

Few months of pain(assuming post break-up difficulty) will be nothing compared to a lifetime of regret.

Focus on your career. Self love is best love. 🥰

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That guy is a goddamn pu&&y. If he can't stand up for you now , he nevel will. Even if you get married and you have a conflict with his parents , he is going to take their side. It ain't gonna be a good life for you. He ain't a free man. A free man does what he wants , whenever he wants as long as it ain't hurting nobody. Marry a free man .

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Totally irrelevant but maybe can work for an answer.

You have only one heart, that is inside you.

I never imagined Living a life with heart failure.

For past 7 months ----

I cough permanently.

I can't walk more than 100 meters that too become difficult at times. Sometimes I will stand only to find out I can't and just sit back.

Even speaking for few minutes can make me breathless.

Could I have avoided it, yes.

Do we always get to make choices in life?

Yes, we always have better choices to make & our entire life depend on such decisions but most often we just surrender to our current situation unable to see long term implications.

Like the gentlemen said, don't fall into bollywood conspiracies designed to fool our emotions and kick that man out of your life if he can't keep a 8 years of commitment.

P. S - Parents don't agree is a cruel silly joke in this age.

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You guys should give break to each other, even after some point u guys do mutually feel its not working, you can live upto your own and find a new partner, remember once you marry him and doesnt find intersted in you, this will keep u haunting for entire life, and it might feel that time there is no comeback.. so chill, you have ample time to make decision about yourself, whether to stay or walk away..

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Ask him the exact reason, there should be some reason beside his parents acceptance. He must be trying to hide behind his parents. If he loves you he could definitely find a way to convince his parents or at least you will see the efforts. Comparatively for boys it’s less difficult to convince parents than for girls. Why I wanted you to find the reason is, to leave behind the hesitation to go forward and find better partner.

If he had the guts to tell you that. He is not the one for you. Try not to be emotional. This is a matter of your life, which he clearly doesnt care about. Take care.

Move on, there are better and brighter people for you.

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