Completely irrelevant still imp for me

Pls advise if someone can

After 8 yrs of relationship he is saying parents are not agree cannot marry....till yesterday he was like I'll never leave you..now he wants to break everything

I can't imager my life without him..what should I do

No one can feel my pain..pls don't make fun of me..

How was your Thanksgiving? Anyone else stuck avoiding all of the relationship questions?

Getting over heartbreak and having a full time job is torture lol. My boyfriend and I just broke up after almost a year of being together. It was such a beautiful relationship but ultimately he just didn’t love me. I love him so much. My mind knows that I deserve reciprocal love and I’m worthy, but I feel physically ill. My body hurts, my stomach is in knots, my head hurts. How is it that I have to mend a broken heart but also meet my billable hours lmao

I went through my gf’s phone and found out she had a crush on my best friend when we first started dating (over a year ago). I suspected this at first but it hurts to have it confirmed and see her telling her friends about him. I’m not sure how I should feel since I went out of line to look through her phone.

Does anyone here have OCD or have a partner with OCD? My spouse has severe contamination OCD and I struggle with how best to support, but not enable them... any tips?

My partner and I are not connecting at all. It’s honestly so hard.

I just learned I was parentified severely, especially emotionally. The discovery came from outside of therapy, but having a place every week to sit down, slow down & reflect def led to it. Being enmeshed with my parents like this was a cause for my anxiety, low self esteem and workaholic, people pleasing tendencies. I'm working on extricating myself and finding my identity again in a way that will be easy on my conscience and values..so I'm learning! Please dont hesitate to go to therapy!...

The death of my best friend in combat will forever haunt me, no matter how hard I want to accept it and let it go. I've been remembering every day since I came back. It's so hard to deal with this on my own.

Any book recommendations for grieving the death of an estranged parent?

Does anyone feel a disconnect with friends who work a typical 9-5, or those who are non-entrepreneurial and/or never owned/run a business?

I’ve been married in a Catholic Church before and now divorced but my now boyfriend says he wants to marry me in a Catholic Church someday. How do I even start a petition for that? Also is that possible to re-marry in a Catholic Church?

Oh nooo, one of my childhood friends is a Karen 🤦‍♀️

I am getting ready to send my 2 year old toddler to a toddler program next week for the first time. Have to fill out a form “bathroom waiver”, which is basically allowing teachers at the school to clean my child after a potty, including genital area. I feel uneasy about this but I know I have to let them… I assume all parents have signed such waiver?

I just had to send my husband away in an ambulance. I’m not allowed to go with him or even go to the hospital. I don’t know what to do. I can’t even be there for my husband.

If you loved your small independent broker dealer but they had just been acquired by a much larger corporation which does have benefits in terms, mostly, in technology, but you lose your “family” in the home office, what would you do and who would you look at if you were considering a change of your own?

3 months post breakup… I seemed to be healing well and all the sudden this week I took a huge step back and feel heartbroken all over again. For context I was in a 4 year relationship including 1 year engaged and had to call my wedding off due to his infidelity. How can I shake this? 😔

My sister & I don’t get along because i feel she is extremely rude & prefers outsiders over family. My parents however, despite the fact that she disrespects them too, always say she is our daughter & we have to deal with it so just let her be. My mom thinks she is not in a good financial state so we should help her & I don’t want to given her disgusting behavior. Every time i buy something nice for myself, my mom kind of pushes me to buy for her too, and I don’t want to. Continued..

My dad who lives in Asia just announced that he had a medical issue. I’m starting to enter the age where I’m going to take care of him financially. It’s a $2,000 hospital bill which in the US is nothing compared to what it represents there (which he can’t afford). He’s going to be fine! Just wanted to share with this group as many of you can understand what it feels like to support your parents when they’re old, not the other way around. I feel so blessed I can help him. 🙏🏽

I low key miss fridays in the office because I don’t know how to make new friends as a 26 year old

How do married folks manage finances ..keep them separate or everything common? Have heard married people splitting rent and stuff and not sure I fully understand how common are situations like that.

Anyone willing to refer for KPMG Atlanta office, financial solutions practice? I'm relocating to the Atlanta area. TIA

Help! What the hell was I think switching to transactional real estate with a small corporate component? 😳 I feel so rushed all the time, like I can’t get a second to focus and these documents are endlesssss and boringggg. I’m a second year in a mid sized firm that pays close to big law and works opposing big law. Words of inspiration or wisdom, please.

Is DC a competitive office to get into for McKinsey?

Do you think this is true?

‘Indian intelligence service’ bought Pegasus from Israel, coordinated with Mossad: NYT reporter

Hi, How's EPAM Systems in terms of wlb and work. Thave received an offer from them and would like to know if someone is working in EPAM. Yoe:7 Tech: Java, Springboot, React, Microservices Offer: 23fixed+1 joining bonus cctc: 13 EPAM Systems

Can someone refer me at suitable position in citi

Skill set - Big Data QA, sql, python, Unix

YOE - 10.5

Hello all,

Does citi provide guest house for few days if we are going to work location from base loacation for 2 days.

Plase give ur thoughts on this.

Hi Fishes,

I have received an email from HR that you have been selected at citi and asking to send few documents like id, salary slip,few other forms that need to filled and scanned. It does not have compensation offered in any of the attached document. Can you help when they will release compensation offered part? What will be the further process? Will they call me and discuss? How does it go in citi?

Some clients are really nervous about getting scammed by a realtor. How can I ensure them that this is not the case?

What is the best way to reach out to your in house agency ? I want to share our call for artists . Do I have go through HR? Or is there a place I can simply post an announcement ?

Anyone having any experience working for NetApp account in TCS ? Would like to know about the experience. Thanks.

Yesterday i got resignation acceptance mail from hr with lwd mentioned.

My TL called me that need to go office else they will extend your notice period.

Will that possible or else he is scaring me?

Does anyone have a helpful recommenders guide I could give to my recommenders?

Is there anybody working as BA in BFSI? I wish to connect.

Hey Fishes,

Any update on the hike letter ?

Honest question but are you able to tie your work directly back to making a difference with sustainability? Or do you feel like a lot of these roles are just optics? Asking as someone who really cares about the subject

Does anyone run a business in addition to their firm? I’m a solo and I’m doing pretty well with about 60-70 billable hours a month. Though that leaves a lot of downtime. Curious if anyone has any second businesses that require about 20 hours a week. Not looking for passive income or franchise ideas though.

Hi Fishes,

Need your suggestion.
Wanted to decline an offer (which I had accepted earlier) stating location contraint, but now they have given location of my choice.Still I don't want to join.

How should I deal with company in this scenario.

Is there too much office romance in Deloitte India rather than Deloitte usi ? As i have heard from one of the very senior employee in D india

Hello Fishes,

Hope everyone is safe and doing well.

Please help me to choose in thee below considering all factors like job security and pay

Infosys - 18 lpa (15% variable) , location- gurugram
Cognizant - 21lpa ( 70k variable) , location - Pune
LNT - 22 lpa ( 5% variable) , home location Noida, daily up down

Thanks in advance.

Any ericsson employees

I look better with mask 😔

Who all miss seeing their crush everyday in the office. WFH is great but it sucks sometime 🤷

Best dating app for india.?. Sick of being single in wfh

I will start,

For the amount of work i do, i feel i am overpaid ! 😅

Hello Fishes,

Which one from below should we join.
Infosys -18 lpa
Cognizant -21 lpa

Amy tips on finding a soulmate? tried a lot of matrimonial sites nothing is working because noone can put up with consulting life style 😔

I wish I could tell my lead how much i like him.

PS: He's engaged.

What to do when you have a crush on your team lead?

Any one who knows about HCL onsite salary structure

Is it just me or other people have also seen people hooking around near cricket ground in Infosys Pune campus.
In the afternoon and night shifts obviously..