What'd you do if you find out that you've been betrayed by your partner?

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Depends on the scenario. And it’s always a lot easier to sit here and say I’d do this and that, without actually being in that situation where I would *have to do* this and that! But, if it was something that was absolutely irreconcilable to me, I would probably have to leave. But again, there will be a lot of variables given the situation.

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I won’t do anything. I’ll just sleep around without any guilt, while planning for a divorce and letting the partner keep worrying about me finding out their affair and keep acting like I haven’t yet found it. Be more fake caring towards the partner to make them feel more guilty and creating situations for them to cheat more lol..that’s it. I will act all righteous later and divorce them without giving any closure. 😎

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Tough life ahead then..I hope you’re financially independent. If you’re a girl then try to get chid maintenance. If you’re a guy I don’t know if that’s even possible. It’d be difficult to get the trust back and work on the relationship. I’d suggest divorce as even after counseling it’ll take forever for things to go back as earlier.

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Hard and dry!

As in cheated on?

Yeah

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