What’s worse, having your team extremely upset with you because you’re leaving or having them not even care that you’re leaving?

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Having your team extremely upset with you because you won’t leave.

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Either way, doesn’t matter. Move on and people will forget about it soon enough.

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Manager at previous job was reaaaaaally agressive about me leaving, it’s quite unsettling

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