When you see two colleagues (both of whom have spouses at home) flirting with each other, what do you do? One of these colleagues is a friend, do I warn her against going down this path or just stay out of it?

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Stay out of it

likefunny

You can privately ask your friend what they’re doing, but otherwise, I’d suggest you stay out of it

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I’ve seen this play out previously. It all ended badly. I would stay out of it now. They’re adults.

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Help them both. Gather evidence, send it anonymously to their partners and that way you will make sure they will be together, fulfilling their love and affection for each other after their divorces.

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Get the popcorn and wait for the show to start.

likefunny

Nothing. Stay out of it.

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Myob

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If one of them is your friend, you can’t just sit and watch how she/ he destroys his/ her life for something temporal. You should talk to your friend. It says a lot about your moral values 👀

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I bet you are a cheater and a very weak person to defend that type of behavior 😏

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She already knows it’s wrong but it’s doing something for her ego. Keep your thoughts to yourself if you want to preserve the friendship. And get some 🍿, it’s gonna be good.

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Stay out of it

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I mean how intense is the flirting???? Some people just have flirty personalities, might not be anything. I’d leave it alone and let them handle their own mess if that’s actually what’s going on.

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I had that happen and it just kept progressing, into full blown adultery… she didn’t care. Eventually I just cut her out of my life lol I don’t need that sort of crap in my circle.

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Go for it… keep us posted…

likefunny

Like the song says, “Drink water and mind your business ……”

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They're adults. Let them make and sleep in their own bed, figuratively speaking, of course. 😁

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