Why does it feel like my whole career is tied to deadlines I don’t control? I’m waiting on data from a collaborator who’s been “almost done” for two months, and my entire project is stuck behind them. It’s hard to stay motivated when your progress depends on someone else’s calendar. How do you manage that without sounding pushy?

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“Just a quick note/reminder,” and then follow up on deadlines. I used to offer help, but that became a trap. I can at least show that I tried to do my part even when it’s out of my control.

I hate waiting on people to get their part done so I can do what I need to do. I have no problem sounding pushy to be honest. We have deadlines that have to be met, end of story.

It’s comforting knowing this is a very common situation and feeling. I like to send friendly reminders “hey ___, when you have a chance can you please do xyz. I want to get it to x department by end of week. Let me know if you need any assistance from me!” so it’s not demanding but just nudges them

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