Why I see most of the (90%) married couples are not happy and separate after 3-4 years?
Also I see lot of married men trying on single women?
I am single never married 35 F. I believe in one man commitment and since couldn’t find authentic perspective finally accepting not to get married. But now parental pressure is too huge and also after seeing so many cases against women regarding safety I feel it will be good to get married and have man by your side. But it’s gambling, what’s your call?

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Good (respect women, no fight, virgin, not wasting money on wine/shopping/, etc)ones and bad ones are available..You have to choose wisely..
While searching for good, hope you are also good(no fake feminism, no false cases, etc) and not bad...

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I already told..depends on individual selection criteria..

Marriage is not like a linear path.
It will have some curves throughout. Many things we should learn and adapt.
Both should have a goal to make it work for their relationship.
Conflicts become a problem when any one side is resilient to change their opinion, mindset and can't respect other's opinions.

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Too bad

Its pure luck... Mostly 100% authentic relationship doesn't exist on earth.... I would recommended stay single and enjoy

It completely depends on your perspective OP. There are a lot of happy couples too...you just have to have the right perspective around it. The way you look at things matters.

get married soon

Its not like that and not everyone is alike , we cannot generalise that 90 % couples get separated , may be you interacted with only those who were in the same boat ..

Happy couples do exist … and that too many

Please surround yourself with positive people

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Married for 6 years, definitely considering the initial years, I feel, I get angry on my spouse more now. But at the same time, when I get angry , my spouse would be calm and doesn't shout back, and once I am over the phase, I would apologize . Neither one is perfect, it's just how much you love / support each other with the differences, when the other one is going through lows and Highs. Both have to forget some things that comes out in anger, as definitely people will change over time. At the end of the day, when I feel like I have accomplished something, there is this person whom I share my happiness with , whom will feel proud of me etc. so, having such a companion would be good I feel.

Everything has good and bad, have to take things positively and work it together and lead a happy life depends on how the other person and you both behave.

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