Years ago, fresh out of college I went to work for a B4. Someone explained a process and I asked too many questions or the same question. This person walked away after explaining and said under his breath “stupid”. I was too new and shocked to react. He was a very liked person because he is smart and just got promoted. He made a presentation on a new topic that blew everyone away. How would you have handled it? I left that firm for unrelated reasons. I don’t know why that memory popped up today.

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I try not to react after any single encounter unless it’s a big one, like someone grabbed by butt. You could have misheard, he could have been having a really bad day (doesn’t excuse it but people are human), etc. I gather more data or have more encounters before I react and then I’m very straight forward and would have said “what did you say?” And addressed it from there. The only stupid questions are the ones that go unasked. Nobody knows everything and especially first years require a lot of training.

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