In today’s dating times, is it easier for men or women to date? Who has it harder? Why?

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Women always have it easier and always will. Women possess beauty given to them by God whilst men possess strength. Women will always have more options than men. I know women who are in their 70s & and they’re still being chased by men in their 40s!!! A women’s body is the most prestigious, most valuable & most lucrative asset on this planet. Don’t ever forget that. Women will always be in demand. I don’t care what anyone says. If there are women who are not being chased or approached it’s because they're either fat, ugly, crazy, a degenerate, mentally or physically handicapped or too masculine but those are the exceptions. 80% of women are desirable.

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Married women who aren’t hearing their husband.

Neither. Women have a swamp. Men have a desert.

Women are harassed constantly by the men who look to prey on women. It’s a lot of options, but often terrible options.

Men often have no one interested in them and are lonely constantly. Most men don’t know how to develop themselves for the female gaze

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I think it depends, I see alot of women have alot good dating options but they always hold out for better until they get age out of the market

Men end up wasting a lot of time dealing with women who are always holding out for better, and end up defaulting to keeping things casual because having serious intentions doesn’t guarantee you a better outcome

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What do you mean by woman ‘they get age out of the market’?

Before 30: Easier for women
After 30: Easier for men

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I may be out of touch from the dating scene but feel it’s significantly shifted. Throughout the ‘10s it felt like women had a way easier time dating. Especially when swipe apps first appeared. Lots of anecdotes with knowing demanding overweight women with decent fit guys. Now, so many guys have lost interest or gave up on traditional relationships that women who do want to find someone are having a harder time than “15 years ago.

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Pretty easy for me

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With the caveat that is somewhat dependent on where you are and what you want, generally speaking dating is easier for women than men 18 to 30, then it starts to shift and by 40 it is solidly easier for men.

It evens out mostly but men are still earning more and more willing to date younger women who don't have the experience to know its not a good deal. I had a roommate who used to talk like she was 6 years old and always had boyfriends willing to pay her rent. It would last 2-3 years before the got out of doge. I wanted to warn the one that was half her age but would that even work? Meanwhile on the flip side many of my female friends have been raped by their partners.

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