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21 is young and maybe immature. That might be what you’re seeing. IMO I would not be unfollowing people based on insecurities of someone I’d been dating for 1 month unless she had a real reason for it other than insecurity
Why are you shocked that a 21 year old is acting immature?
At 28, you shouldn’t be going after anyone under 25.
Chief
Half your age +7 = 21
That’s because your not over you Ex yet , besides you’ve been single 4 months , that ain’t single , bread can last that long in the freezer 😅 . Give yourself at least a year being single at the minimum. You can’t get over 5 years in 4 months . You’re not being fair to this other girl because your head and heart ain’t in it . Cut her loose , but in the right way , just don’t Ghost . Because it sounds like she’s about to cut you loose .
You are still attached to your ex.
Besides the 21 year old being young and naive I don’t disagree with her ask either as a 30 yr old. After 5 years and only 4 months apart and you don’t want to unfollow her kind of feels like you aren’t over them, which is ok too I mean it’s only been 4 months. I think it’s up to you to decide if this new person is worth the unfollow because again 21 is young ig looking for ltr.
How does she know that you still follow your ex?
I don’t want to unfollow her. I don’t talk to her at all other than the times she needs to collect post that sometimes still come to my house. Should I unfollow her or is her request unwarranted?
I know gals , aged 19 , with kids
Rising Star
See if you can come up with a compromise- say you will unfollow her for 4 months or something, but that you do care about her and want to stay in friendly touch in the future
Took me over a year to unfollow but it’ll happen eventually/naturally. It’s less of a big deal than you think, but now in the moment I recall how it felt even if they were amicable and muted, etc.