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Go to the practice group leader and ask for a different mentor.
Adding to A2: Rejecting an assigned mentor without even trying is a recipe for disaster. Go, listen, talk, maybe it helps you to understand them better. If it is really untenable ask one of your real mentors how to approach.
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Heart goes out to you OP—my first year mentor was beyond useless and directly contributed to me lateraling. Unfortunately with small groups it is sometimes the case that alternative mentors are not an option.
Look up mentoring prompts and just spend each session discussing a new prompt. This job is full of people no one likes. I specialize in difficult personalities. After a few sessions (3-4), get your actual informal mentor in your group to request to formalize the relationship (not you). They won’t say no to a direct request from a volunteer, especially if this person has a few other mentees.
Try to think of some thoughtful questions you can ask that they may have answers to. Even people you don’t like can be helpful. But I second trying to get mentorship from others you connect with more.