Any ladies on here in West New York/Weehawken/Hoboken? 33/M here

Any single F want to chat? 33 M US born

Are text message breakups acceptable? Better than complete ghosting right

Lockdown makes it hard to date

I feel like I wouldn't get many tips as a server because I'm a guy, is this really true or am I just making it up?

I matched with a guy and we initially agreed to meet for the first time this coming Friday. Last Wed, he sent two messages on the app with suggestions but I wasn’t able to text back until Sat because I was traveling. He unmatched me. Am I in the wrong here? How often do you text people in the talking stage? (F in early 30s here)

Can Grindr be used as a dating app?

I had a sex dream about my senior, but I have a boyfriend. Am I terrible? Has this happen to anyone else?

Has anyone ever been in a mostly platonic relationship? I don’t like to label myself much, but I don’t really like intimacy and don’t really like romance. Some people would say I’m asexual/aromantic, but unless that too is a spectrum, I don’t think I fit squarely into that group. As I get older, I’m realizing I’m feeling very lonely. It would be nice to find someone, but have it be platonic (any gender/sex). It’s weird, I know. It’s hard to articulate as well. Can anyone relate? 😭😭

34/male /northern VA/white/balding/starting to get a dad bod/im probably single for a reason

Super appealing right?

First afternoon date(ish) in South Ken. What are some good places to go for coffee/drinks etc.?

Dating. How do you navigate dating attorneys and being a judicial law clerk? Conflicts? Awkwardness?

Anyone up for speed dating in the comments? 👀 Please no trolling, afterall this is the 30s bowl...
For each of the following describe yourself + the person you're looking for.

1. ASL
2. Something serious/casual
3. Physical description - as detailed or as general as you'd like 🤣
4. Interests/hobbies
5. Personality traits
6. Values
7. Non- negotiables
8. Whatever else....

Let's make some connections!

How many of you do some bicep curls before going out on a date?

I recently asked everyone’s age filters on dating apps and there were some mentions of fear of baggage and that’s why you don’t date older than X. What baggage are you afraid of? Ex spouses? Kids from prior relationships? What is it?

Matched with a guy on Tinder. Had a great first date. We are stilling chatting on WhatsApp. But he has disappeared from my tinder (presumably, he unmatched with me). Is it typical for ppl to unmatch on Tinder when they are still interested in you?

For those of you in your mid-20’s, how often do you go on dates with your significant other? In a serious relationship for the first time since college and trying to gauge what folks consider normal for dating frequency (excluding nights in). Context - we’re 25, dating for 3 months, live 5 mins away from each other, decent WLB

Poll: single / dating / partnered..? The stresses of the traveling consultant lifestyle and the fickleness of the gay male have made it nearly impossible to date consistently. Do y'all agree?

I dated someone 15 years older than me and he always lectured me about what did I do wrong. From small things like where to squeeze ketchup on my plate to big things like how to live my life and pivot to a career that his “friends” do so well in right now. Almost everything I did or said he’d follow with some criticism. I ghosted him after another lunch date full of such lectures.

How can one break into business immigration law with zero immigration experience?

I have the option to leave Biglaw for in-house position at Fortune 100 for 320k TC with 10 YOE in HCOLC. This is my first in-house role and so I wanted others' thoughts on TC range for my level.

Is it better to choose Nutanix over VMware, if Nutanix is compensating way more?

What are the best sports bars to meet guys on a Sunday afternoon?

Where do professionals 30+ meet people these days besides dating apps?!

So… are any NJ/NYC people planning a meet up?! 👀

Perhaps an old concept at this point but who agrees that creatives need to be left and right brain these days?

I’ve been struggling to find an agency gig for the last six months. freelance seems to have dried up and now I’m considering going for an in-house job. how bad will this move fuck my career?

Does adhd cause you to struggle with job performance or satisfaction? I’ve been having a hard time focusing on tasks for long periods of time and have lost interest in my job. It’s discouraging because I’m just a junior and worried that it means I’m not suited to be a cw.

BIA Briefs: I’m an associate at an immigration law firm. I determined that immigration isn’t for me So I gave the managing partner my 2 weeks. He wants me to wrap up some BIA briefs before I leave however I’m reviewing the record for a lot these and I’m seeing that a lot of the arguments for Asylum, Withhold, and CAT are incomplete. How I’m going to argue that the IC abused its discretion or misapplied the law when we made a facially insufficient argument for relief?

How’s it like being gay in Singapore?

Dad got laid off. Drinking got worse. Attempted assault on sis and mom. Had to put up in hotel. No clue on next steps (legal and personal). Project is complete shit show and SM is not getting it. Idk man...

Hello - can anyone refer me to Deloitte’s GPS Cyber Practice in San Francisco?

I had to leave the US before my lease ended due to visa reasons and subleased the apartment. I will be returning to the US on L1A shortly after the sublease ends (but before the term of the lease expires), could that jeopardize my return on L1A?

Best/most interesting questions to ask admissions reps or current students?

What are your thoughts about putting an explanation for the current gap (as in, I haven’t been working for several months) on your resume, LinkedIn profile or cover letter? If you think it should be included in one of these places, how would you do it?

Can someone please refer me to Walmart?
I have the job ids

Would folks be interested in a NYC singles of fishbowl party? I know a solid venue

36 M anyone interested in getting a drink in this rainy weather? 🤕

How about everyone plan a get together on a weekend in a bar know each other and build this community?

33M returning to NYC on Saturday. Anyone up for a Sunday brunch, cocktails, or a Central Park workout?

How's everyone doing this weekend?

Would you marry someone that’s unemployed or doesn’t want to work? What’s the minimum salary you can accept from your SO ?

Any ladies up for a drink this weekend?. Have the next 5 days off from work. 33 M

In an attempt to revitalize this bowl
26m seeking opportunity in the relationship sector. I used to be am event coordinator so I have years of exp planning dates. I enjoy relaxing at home but also adventuring into the outside.
If you or anyone you know is looking for a partner in this market please refer me.

Meet up Announcement: start your Labor Day weekend off right! Tomorrow, 9/4 @ 5:30PM. Heckscher Playground. Comment if you want to be added to the group!

Damn! Why's it so silent in here 😅 35M NYC

Anyone interested in taking a walk in the park this upcoming week?

new to the bowl, just saying hi!

@guys, is it weird if a girl you don’t know DMs you and says she came across your profile on Hinge/thinks you’re cute? Is that creepy?

Context: I swiped right on a guy but he hasn’t matched with me so not sure if he X me out or just hasn’t checked the app (it’s been 2 days)

What bars do men in their 30s frequent?

Do women like to be bought items out of appreciation ?

So many people live in NYC but still it feels like the loneliness place on the planet. Does anybody have positive stories from dating apps? How do you guys meet ppl in general?

Any female fish in the nyc area like dating guys 35+?

Welcome, friends! I created this community to meet others in the city during these strange times.

This will primarily serve as a safe space to meet friends. If your vibe is more on the dating end, that's fine too.

Let's be kind, inclusive, and respectful. I've already met some of you in person, looking forward to meet more folks here!

Who's free tn and wants to mingle? 26/m

Single 30M working at a tech firm.
I would love to buy shoes for a few ladies