Any mamas really want more children but likely won’t because of age, partner not wanting more, cost, infertility, etc? How are you managing those feelings? Would love some tips ❤️

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Yes. I want more but I know in my core that having another with my partner would be a huge mistake

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Right here with you, can’t fathom the cost of another ever being realistic but always truly thought I’d have a big family 💔

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Yes. I’d like one more but my partner does not want another and finances weigh on him. I try to be thankful for the healthy kids we do have, focus on spending one on one time with each of them and thinking about saving money to do more meaningful trips and experiences as a family. In the big picture, those things are important to me and our family dynamic, so I try to keep an eye on that. Doesn’t always work, but focusing on the good we have does help put things in perspective. Hope things work out for you.

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