Anyone find it incredibly difficult to manage connections and continue to network once you have kids? Definitely prefer spending time with family, but feel I’m not growing my network as effectively

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Yes but I’ve actually done some great networking at my kids events. The network shifts a bit. But everyone with kids is in the same boat. Just go with it!

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Absolutely- and on top of that I live more than an hour from the office and I work from home. Lol it feels impossible to me.

You need a wife who backs you up, and a nanny ;)

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Enough work for today, Dad. Let’s snuggle.

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Your mom goes to college

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