Anyone here indulged in extra marital ? am thinking to go ahead with one. I have my reasons. Jus checking if how things had been for you

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Leave your spouse instead of indulging in an extra marital affair! If you don’t like her/him, move on!!
If you have kids in between and your partner comes to know about your flings, it will leave a pretty bad lasting impression on your kids. Think twice before giving in to your temptations…

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Have the decency to divorce your spouse.

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As long as it is only for physical needs it should be ok. Getting involved emotionally will affect your family.

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What Dell 1 said

Damn what a POS. 💩

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And this right here is why I don’t date Indian men.

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@HDFC
That’s why it’s prolly still an “Associate”! Wonder how that will age.

This thread is cheaters and their mental gymnastics on why it’s okay. If you value trust and your relationship is based on any trust at all then it’s not okay because you’re breaking your partners trust.

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Been there done that

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good only .. I moved out before things get bad

I once dated a girl before marriage who later revealed she’s active on OF. Now I talk to her and she says she’s married but running out of money. Nothing extra marital but something’s are complicated when looked from a women’s perspective. These stuff are best left hidden

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you are so wrong in your assumption that all indian men want submissive wife and neverthe less me. Guess u need help to have some stereotypes removed. Good luck

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I agree with everyone above. I am not judging at all but if you are unhappy then just leave the marriage. Its not fair to your partner to go cheat when you could just leave. Again not judging but it makes me sad for your partner who has no idea what you are dong.

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Happiness is not a boolean value.. It keeps coming and going.. It can't be the only parameter to stay in the marriage. Moreover a spouse can't fulfill all the physical and emotional needs. There could a void even with a good partner. To overcome these shortcomings, people may seek these things outside marriage.

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Monogamy is not a natural thing .

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I actually had a strong friendship with a guy in my masters program. The problem was that I was in an unhappy marriage at the time, w a man who could not control his drinking. The friendship w this guy at school turned into a 4-5 yr emotional affair and somewhat physical. I finally told my then husband, who was rarely at home and couldn’t even seem to get his butt home at night, as a way to communicate how badly I was feeling in the marriage, but he again didn’t hear me. He said he’d change. He didn’t! We ended up in counseling and ultimately got divorced. I remarried shortly thereafter to someone completely different and we’ve been married 33 years. My ex remarried and is now divorced.
I did not consciously tell myself I was going to have an affair, but it happened nevertheless.
Proceed with caution, you might just lose your family and have no one to come home too.

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Office me to mat hi karna, also if your conscience allows and you don't feel guilty about it go ahead but keep in mind you can't solve a problem by creating another so be sure that you are not entering into another situation which might cause you more pain than pleasure.

sure. Thanks for inputs.

I'm wondering how do you even get into extra marital without involving fellow colleagues from same organisation

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