Are there couples who never fight/argue? Relationship is a bed of roses and are in perfect sync with each other.

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It's not exactly perfect, but almost.

We both still like each other, enjoy time together. 26 years in January.

Rarely argue, and when we do, it's never heated or ugly.

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We are celebrating 25 years next year. Honestly, a bed of roses doesn’t sound very comfortable to me, but we are very happy and had fun planning our upcoming anniversary trip yesterday.

We rarely fight or lose tempers. Sure, we get frustrated with each other at times, but when you express your frustration in a healthy way, it stops fights or tempers from flaring.

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Conflict can help make the relationship stronger because you’re challenged to grow together, but constant arguments isn’t the wave lol. We definitely don’t argue a lot, but do have needed conversations. I think it’s normal to go through a period of tension early in marriage with more arguments, but as your love matures things wane

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I’ve been married 10 years and I would say my husband and I never fight or argue. We share a lot of the same life values, including financial values, so that helps. And then when we do see something differently, it usually doesn’t matter, but if it does we talk about it. We each feel comfortable sharing our own thoughts and feelings and also genuinely want to understand our spouse’s thoughts and feelings.

It’s weird to me when people say “marriage is hard” or “you have to choose each day to love your spouse” because those just don’t match my experience at all. Life is hard enough on its own, and marriage is unnecessary, so why would you want a marriage that isn’t adding love, comfort, and fun to your life every day?

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Errrrrmmmmmmmmm…. NO

Yes but couples therapy helped us get there

Honestly I haven't seen very many of these couples, and I'm pretty sure whatever relationship I would be in would always have some kind or arguing lol. It's just the way I am. But I definitely know that we have gone through some rough patches (lots of arguments) and some easier patches, and I do think it's worth learning how to live in better harmony (I think almost every couple can learn it if both people are willing)

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Not never, but we argue maybe once every year or two & it’s usually just some stupid that we get over quickly.

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