Random question but do you let your kids hang out in your bedroom and use your master bath if applicable? My kids always seem to want to use our bathroom instead of theirs and my spouse doesn't care but I grew up with my parent's room basically being off limits and think I'd prefer it that way.

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I don’t think there is hard and fast rule here. Whatever you do, do it lovingly (that the kids can feel) is my suggestion. I do not generally allow them to come to my and my spouse’s bedroom or use the bathroom since they have their own.
If they are already used to it, don’t expect an overnight change. Having your spouse onboard with you help. Giving them a convincing why will make them realize why they should change the pattern.

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