As a new mom, have any of you had a mom mentor? Was it someone within your organization or outside? What did you gain from the connection?

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It always helped me to have friends who’s been there done that so could be candid about what I was to expect, endure, what things to buy, what was not needed, for tips and tricks. It saved me a lot of time to be able to have my very own consults to help me in a pinch. A lot of stress. And just knowing others went through what I did just helped me emotionally. I had one at work who helped me with perspective. Another friend who was my baby buying stuff guru. Another that knew all about food. Another I went to just to cry it out sometimes.

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Our work had a moms group comprised of moms of kids that were 3 and under. It was great to ask them questions and also to help each other navigate maternity leave and easing back into the workplace. There were a few second time moms there with kids under 3 so we would get advice from them but also would be able to give them new advice on what the new hot baby gadget that was out since they last gave birth. This has been the most helpful group for me as they also understand advertising and our agency and the best ways to navigate return to work.

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This is a brilliant idea! i never had that but wish I did - it could have all been so much easier to navigate if there was someone to have open conversations with.

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Yes and it has been hands-down one of the most valuable resources I could’ve had in my transition to parenthood. She taught me the importance of advocating for myself (even and especially as a new mom), setting work boundaries, taking care of myself postpartum, and just sets a great example at work. I have worked in other offices where parents were tolerated (at best) or shunned (at worst). The difference in working at an office and with positive example parents is truly night and day.

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