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How could it be toxic if no one knew? Unless she was bringing whips and handcuffs into the office I don’t see how her personal life have anything to do with making a workplace toxic was she whipping people in the break room?
I agree. I was asking because some people are triggered. I was asking a genuine question about sex in the workplace. Then, people in this bowl harass me.
What someone does in their personal life does not make a toxic workplace. Was this person toxic towards you because of this? If no, that’s the answer.
Thank you.
It’s only toxic if they are asking you to be a part of it.
I would say her side job is out of her contracted hours and is private. The fact that she trusted you enough to tell you is a complement. It doesn't make for a toxic work environment, the only thing it may have done is your fascination distracted you. Again, a personal thing. As a side note, I would say her air of authority helps get the job done which surely is an asset.