Between 60-hour work weeks, court appearances, and school plays, being a partner and a parent is a constant balancing act.

Anyone else feeling the pressure? How do you carve out family time without sacrificing your career? Any time management hacks or sanity-saving tips to share?

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Yes, the pressure is unreal some days. I'm very fortunate to have a partner with a flexible WFH role who is able to drive the kids around. I try to be there as much as possible, but I never feel like I'm doing enough.

From personal experience - I had to stop trying to be an A+ at everything - all the time. You can’t. It’s impossible. But you can be great when it matters the most. Pick your *true* priorities and the rest will follow.

A good therapist helps.

And I try to avoid scheduling trials during Christmas and end of the school year (if I have a choice) - that sets you up for failure.

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