Considering buying a house. Or leaving corporate & starting a business. Feels like I can do one, not both. Would love to hear perspectives on this choice.

Mid 30s M, currently living in a shoe box in NY. The house is on the California coast (& out of budget). But it is a dream and feels like a good step forward & towards starting a family soon. If I do, I’ll have to stay at my company for some time. If I start the business, I would have to put off the house, possibly kids, & grind for a while.

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Take some time off and reevaluate. What makes you happy? Many routes besides major expenditures that could impact what you’ve accrued and your future family.

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How much is your side business already bringing in?

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Without knowing anything else, I would take as much time as you need to verify you aren't seeing through a colored lens. Dreams can have an outsized impact on reality. That being said, if you have clients for your business and can put in the work, I say send it. Good luck!

1 client with revenue but not substantial enough to cover leaving full time so trying to build a stable of 2-3.
No problem putting in the time and effort, but don’t want to back myself into a corner with a mortgage+no guaranteed income

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