Dealing with drama at work is the absolute worst. I hate confrontation and anything that takes away from being productive during the work day. Would be so appreciative of any suggestions for getting through the work day when coworkers constantly have drama with each other and try to pull you into it.

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Flat out tell them you don't want to be involved. They'll leave you out of it. If not just listen to them vent and then walk away.

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Time to use the Firing Squad 😱

Do you give them any attention or response at all? I would first try to just ignore them. But if they keep telling you even when you're not responding, I would be very direct that you don't have space for other people's drama.

If you have to engage or respond at all, steer the conversation back to an active project / issue, etc....preferably something you need or they have failed to deliver to you. I've found people tend to steer clear of me when they leave our interaction with more workload than when they started...

Oh i hate drama. I try to stay away from it. I just do my work and leave.

Just don’t get involved and clearly communicate how you aren’t interested in bitching

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