Desi girls. What do you look in a guy? I have had close to 20 matches last 3 days(not a flex post-truly want to understand)- may be 3-4 are desi and none of the desi girl replied back. Other ethnic girls have no issue going out with me. Open to suggestions🤔

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They just matched with you cause you’re desi but they’ll go out with the goras only.

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From a hinge profile perspective I look for someone who has a nice smile, is tan, has a good education, someone who is employed, is close to where I live, and is 5’5” or above ideally. I’m flexible on the height part as long as he is taller than me. There should be no major red flags (according to me) in profile - photos with lots of girls in bikinis, derogatory comments about their exes or women in bio, photos with their tongue sticking out, looking for casual or don’t know what they want, is visiting the place, someone who is half in my city and the other half in another city or splits their time between two countries, and too many pics with sunglasses.

Going a bit deeper - when it comes to the talking part - someone who is flexible, open minded, curious, down to earth, who respects my culture, soft spoken, intelligent, kind, easy going, and is good with finances. Also, someone who is communicative, believes in mental health, believes that two opposing views can co-exist, has similar values, lifestyle aspirations, similar thoughts on how to bring up children, family-oriented, supportive, and loves kids.

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Thanks, D1!

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Bro, no slight at your matches, but they could be bots too! Which app? Desi girls are an enigma.

Its hinge. As far as i can tell, doesn’t feel like bots.

for reals everyone's mixing, try mixing too XD

What are you opening the convo with?

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