Do you tell your partner that you have HSV-1? I didn’t know that I have it and recently I got blood test and found out. I started to have outbreaks (sores around lips, usually one) every now and then when I am stressed.

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You tell them. The answer is yes!

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I’d lean toward ‘yes,’ but if it makes you feel any better, approximately ~49% of the US population under the aged 16-49 had HSV-1 as of a 2016 study, so she might have it too 🤷🏻‍♂️

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That's just a bad doctor then, I've never had an issue asking for the blood test as part of an annual check.

I still get asked to get an aids test all the time even though I've never done hard drugs, and I'm a woman.

Our Healthcare system just sucks, it not being included for you doesn't represent anything other than maybe it's an expensive test and the doctor doesn't want the hassle.

My husband has it and I don’t. Didn’t know because he almost never gets outbreaks. His first one showed up when we had our first baby 😅 but he does a really good job of identifying when one is starting and making sure he doesn’t kiss me or our kids.

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This exactly! An ex of mine had it and if he ever had a flare up he would simply let me know and that was that. No big anything.

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Definitely a yes.

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