F fish here—I’m trying to be a better online dater. what are people’s strategy for online dating? How many ppl do you match vs talk to vs meet up? What are the best apps/date avenues? I find it hard to talk/go on dates with my matches cause I’m not a great texter and I’m not really feeling interested in people’s profiles (in person is way more interesting to me but I’m trying to be flexible with covid).

Recently divorced after 10+ yrs (40M, Denver)... Starting to figure out dating again. What age difference is it too cringe to try to date?... 10 yrs younger ok? If you're low 30'sF us a 40M in play?

New to the city.
How do you all get through the constant gray and gloom? Especially with the lockdowns: with gyms closed, and constant drizzle - what outdoor activities do you do?

Can I request to be removed from my project ASAP? Working long hours, lost 5 lbs in the last month, cannot get this project out of my mind. Big 4

Maybe this is the socialist in me but shouldn’t Moderna and Pfizer waive their patent exclusivity for their Covid vaccines? Don’t we have a moral obligation for the world to vaccinate as many people as quickly as possible?

It blows my mind that many countries won’t be able to vaccinate most of their people until 2023. There should be access to vaccine generics

Need some advice. My friend hooked up with someone who is now my GF but back when I was in a relationship with someone else. Now that her and I are dating I can’t help but feel weird when my friend and GF chat. Is that weird or normal?

Just tested positive for covid. Was vaccinated with moderna - what gives? Have been hearing of so many breakthrough infections lately

I forgot to wear a mask in my apartment building common area. Ran back upstairs to get it but nervous and paranoid that I’ve been exposed. Is there anything I can do but quarantine and wait a few days to get tested? So mad at myself right now

At what point do we think vaccine mandate for entry into restaurants/museums/concerts etc is no longer going to be required in NYC given straight acknowledgment now even in mainstream media that vaccine efficacy drastically drops after 4 months and now that we know it does not stop transmission? This summer?

Any good drinks spots for a date night? Something with a frozen fruit drink or craft cocktails?

What are your thoughts on those who refuse to wear cloth masks as a healthcare professional?

If your GF is interested in a 3some, what are your thoughts on that? 🤭

1 thing that has resonated with me on this App throughout Covid, is that the beliefs I held about my consulting colleagues were completely & totally wrong. A variety of the discussions, particularly those re: the political environment in the US & the widespread movement to pursue equality, have demonstrated that many of my peers are sociopaths incapable of exercising the same objective & critical thinking skills they they apply when charging clients hundreds hundreds of dollar an hour.

We’re 🍞

Having an animal friend with cancer is not something easy. This year I have already had 24 animals that went to sleep in order to stop suffering. This is not easy for their families at all. It seems to me that the cancer stats in domestic animals are increasing, is this just me?

I been thinking about buying a 3bed and 3bath house or a condo. I haven’t had much luck in finding one so I started thinking about 4 bed and 3bath. I am single and I don’t have any plans to marry or have a partner staying with me. Is there anyone who’s single living in a 3 or 4 bed house by yourself ? Please share your experiences from all aspects. The only thing that makes me think weird is, it’s too much space for one person ☹️

These dating apps. ARGH! Someone “likes” you (takes the time to do that) then never messages you back. I don’t understand.

Had a 3.2 in undergrad at UC Berkeley. Struggled with mental health 2 of my semesters, which reflects in my transcript pretty evidently. Is it worth writing an optional essay about? Just don’t want to be dinged and not seen as capable for grad level courses bc of that

Are you guys as busy as you were pre-COVID? I'm at a no name and have had two transportation clients not want to sell anymore after the massive hit in March and April

Had signed for AYDE. Now having to cancel it as I have got fever. Just an explanation I hadn't been to office recently. I wasn't feeling well for over 8 days so I didn't visit office. I probably caught it from somewhere else.

How many years of experience did you have before you went client-side?

Has anyone done the Blackstone pymetrics?

which institute is good for Data Science

Do you agree or disagree that email marketing is still king?

Looking to do a career pivot into VC. Have 12+ years of B2B tech marketing experience with IBM, Google, Deloitte and a number of startups. Have skills in messaging, product launches, and sales and enjoy diving deep on my personal investments (all public companies beyond a few RSUs). Have an MBA in the back pocket too. Thoughts are to join as a marketing expert and learn unique VC investment philosophy. Any advice on how to break into the VC world? Just started networking/planning.

Are there any Infrastructure related VC funds that hire PhDs ? Thanks

Hi All,

Is cognizant hiring for incident manager service management ITIL, ITSM. If yes can someone referr me there please.
Thanks in advance!!!

Hi, I have two years bond for two lakhs
Served 1 year 3 months yet.
No project
Found a job for 6 lpa
Current package is 4

How to break bond without paying much bond amount
How much shud i be paying if I have to
Should I wait for the hike ?
Do they really give you a hike after 18 months???

Anyone looking for a head of people specifically and start ups or small businesses?

What are your thoughts on those who refuse to wear cloth masks as a healthcare professional?

Hi sharks,
Bowl seems so silent. Can we keep it interactive? Please suggest.

Hi Fellow Producers. Thinking of going freelance and making myself available in LA, PDX and NYC. Does anyone know a fair and good daily rate for a Freelance Senior Content Producer in each city?

Hi All, I need referral in Citi or Verifone or Microfocus. If anyone can provide referral in any of these plz dm or comment. Thanks.
YOE - 2 years 7 months
LWD - 24th Nov 2022

Spring4Shell vulnerability is here like log4J

Guys how is HCL in SAP consulting. Got offer from HCL which is around 30% hike over my current CTC . Is it worth to shift. And yes money is one of my key motivation

How many days it usually takes for Full and final settlement in Capgemini? It's been 11 days after lwd but didn't receive any communication yet even after dropping mail to f&f team. Could someone help here pls.?

Thinking about moving to NYC! Graduated in 2019 with a SCOM degree and International Finance from UW-Milwaukee. Currently a material management consultant in Milwaukee. Any of you know of any opportunities in the city ? Would prefer a lgbtq friendly place 😅

Who else is going to be with their right hand this New Years?

Uniqlo has really cute staff on the men's floor (😍 and 😈)

For the 🐠 who stayed in town, my best friend is in town for NYE? Where should we go?

Get together for avengers end game and dinner after?

Wow this group is quiet....... 🦗 🦗 🦗

I’m struggling to make lgbtq+ friends in the city. I’ve tried lgbtq+ bars but I don’t like the romantic pressure they seem to have. What is the best way to make friends? 25yo active F

Any good networking events for lgbtq+ community in NYC. Financial services, legal, accounting or similar?

Any gays Wana come to nyc for 1-3 weeks in January ? Looking to rent my place in chelsea while I’m away

What are folks doing for WP this weekend?

One more week! Roll Call: Where y'all gunna be next weekend?
Horse Meat Disco, Pride Island, and We Party here

Also, who's already taken off Monday? 😜

Do any gay men know of any good STD test clinics in nyc/manhattan? Also how does the process work? Is it self swabbing? Thanks

Did anyone run the marathon?

What virtual pride events are people attending?

Any trans folks in nyc? maybe start a new meetup group?

Anyone know a place to safely meet other kinksters?

Any1 interested in joining a NSFW groupchat we have?

I’m putting together a group of LGBTQ professionals in NYC to chat and organize casual hangouts together (since not all of us are into vball/kickball). DM me with your email if interested!

Any Eurovision watch party location recs?