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I can relate. For various reasons, the two associates I’m closest to in my class are out right now, and it’s had a surprisingly big impact on my mental health. It’s nice to destress with people who know the firm and know the players. I know the two associates will be back, but it did make me think about prioritizing finding a good therapist.
Mentor
My spouse (who is a therapist) has a healthy practice with many BL attorneys because they can speak the language and understand the struggles that most don’t—this industry is such a strange beast
Coach
Befriend the laterals
Yes that’s my plan assuming they can actually find laterals to fill the void
You're mis-framing the question. You have to decide (1) if you like your job enough to keep it, and (2) how to optimize your satisfaction with your job and prospects. That's kind of it.
It sucks not to have anyone you can turn to as a peer. If you had a best friend at work, maybe lateral to join them if that would satisfy you most?
But a job is just a means to goals of your choosing, so work the problem.
Well I need the money, and really the only thing that made it tolerable was to have close friends in the workplace, considering the ungodly hours we spend on this job. They all went in house and it’s not like we can just go as a batch. So I guess to your point, I just suck it up until I can exit.
You are one step closer to partnership. Keep grinding.
Either buckle up and push for partner or stop swimming upstream and Lateral out
You were the only one who could hack it.