...First date ideas during a pandemic?

How to deal with people flirting with you at work.
I’m married, and one of my coworkers flirts with me. Nothing super overt, but definitely not professional. We’re good friends and work together constantly because we’re on the same client, so I don’t want to make it awkward. Do I just do nothing and let it go? It is mostly just odd I’m not super offended, but I’m also clearly uninterested!

After everyone gets vaccinated, thinking of starting a desi singles meet up. Details will be shared later. Who’s in?

Matched with a guy on Tinder. Had a great first date. We are stilling chatting on WhatsApp. But he has disappeared from my tinder (presumably, he unmatched with me). Is it typical for ppl to unmatch on Tinder when they are still interested in you?

Any single females want to grab drinks/dinner in the city?
28M for reference!

I know many of us have (had) crushes on senior bankers, BUT have any of you taken it further than just a crush from afar?

FaceTime date 👀

Can’t sleep. Any ladies want to chat? 👩🏽

30M here, up for a chat

I feel like I wouldn't get many tips as a server because I'm a guy, is this really true or am I just making it up?

“You have a good looking face. But your body is absolute junk."

Been single for 7 months from a long term relationship. I still don’t feel motivated to date, I just don’t think I’m ready. I also don’t know if I’ll be ready soon. At what point should I be “worried"

Most cringeworthy pickup lines you’ve seen on dating apps?
I’ll start: “Are you my appendix cuz I want to take you out”

Decided to start dating again - realized I would need to tell some poor guy some day soon that I moonlight as a dominatrix 😣 I make too much

My natural instinct is to assume rejection if I have conflict with a partner or don’t think my feelings are reciprocated. I’ll try to bring it up with them, but I’ll say “if you want to end this feel free” so it doesn’t hurt me (and they can say what they really mean instead of sugarcoating). Someone told me today that they just assume I’m not interested because I always seem to “run” but I’m not sure how to bring up problems/feelings otherwise. How do you approach these hard questions?

Hi male here , any one interested msg me

Where do professionals 30+ meet people these days besides dating apps?!

I’m 35, and going on a first date. Thinking about bringing her flowers. Yea on No? And what would be the perception?

45 M In Bay Area CA . Any female 🐠 from Bay Area here?

I’m really into older women, just wish I knew where to meet them

Thinking of moving out of Manhattan. I’m a native New Yorker, but longing for some real outdoor space and to get a car again. I’m in my early 30s, and considering kids in the next few years (so the reality of not being able to set up here forever/afford private schools, etc. is real). Welcome all suggestions on neighborhoods ppl love that are still commutable. Yes, I’d love a brownstone in Park Slope, but totally out of budget. Looking for something around 750k or less that checks all the boxes.

What are some nomad options in NY if you don’t want to sign a lease?

Anyone in ATL during the week? I want to explore 😁

Hey Fishes,
I am making my first switch. What should I tell my current manager on why I want to leave ?
He is the most dramatic person I have ever seen. I don’t have much experience in these kind of corporate talks.

Yoe : 2.1 years
CCTC : 3.9 LPA
Offered: 7 LPA

Sometimes when I make a mistake at work I feel like I am not good enough for the job while other times I take it as “let’s do better next time.” Would love to find a balance between the two feelings.

Hi Fishes ,
Is NTT providing shift allowances, i just checked with HR she said they are in negotiations with management globally for all employees is that true ?

Is current layoffs only happening in Amazon US offices or Amazon India offices as well ?

Jummah Mubarak & Happy New Year Fam! 💚

Can someone explain what’s a culture day and how do you take it?

Anyone had the experience working in the US as a consultant? Apart from higher comp, do you feel there are more opportunities there?

Any leads for a room/1 RK near ZS gurgaon office, have my joining from 5th so need to shift ASAP.
Please help.
TIA

I'm having a really tough time transitioning my career after going back to school and getting my degree. I've applied to a plethora of jobs and have not even really gotten interviews. I've remade my resume a ton of times. I was hoping someone could possibly look over my resume or provide tips on how to get a job with little to no experience. Thanks in advance.

After trying to make the shift from agency to in house for years, I just got offered a full-time digital marketing manager role at a tech company in the Bay Area! In researching salaries, the range seems huge in the Bay. Any advice on how to determine a reasonable number to bring to the table?

Marketing folks - may I ask how much you are earning based on yoe? I’m trying to make the transition and want to understand better about the salary range.

Hi! Anybody knows of federal agencies hiring that are offering fulltime telework/remote?
I currently work for an agency based in DC and my boss is forcing us to come back into the office fulltime after we’ve been remote for nearly two years. Majority of my coworkers have already left for the private sector but I’d like to remain in the public.

I started a new account job at an agency. I’ve been here for about 2 months & I hate it. To put it simply, its an absolute mess. Does it look bad to other agencies if I jump ship after only 2 months?

Hi
I’m going to receive an offer from O9 as senior consultant, how is WLB, someone in the same role has some insights? The job will be based in Europe. Actually I’m working for a software boutique in supply chain and I’m looking fo an enhance in my career.
Thank you in advance for any advice

Nurses of nyc where do you guys hang in the city on your free time. Are there any places specifically that you go to as well to network?

Saw there is a promoted live session on how to handle performance reviews today (1/6) but when I click on it it just takes me to this bowl. Anyone know how to register?

Found a good looking Herman Miller Aeron, used on CL. Worth the 400 bucks? Do not have a proper office chair at the moment

Does this Friday feel like a Monday to anyone else?

Book recommendations? I’ve been reading atomic habits, and have moved onto Traders guns and money.

Anyone wanna pay for my vacation to Disney world?

Looking for ergonomic office chair recommendations, budget is $500. Any suggestions?

Advice on quitting job with short notice? I’ve always adhered to two-plus weeks notice, however got an offer and essentially want to start next week, can’t stand my current role, however it would be a BIG surprise to coworkers and leave folks short-handed for a while. Thoughts?

I have a phone screen with American Express. Does anyone know how many days of PTO is allotted?

How long did you take off time from COVID?

Sometimes I love my job, other days I really feel like an employee.

What does your boss do to remind you you’re an employee?

How do I politely resign? I was going to put my two weeks in last week, but it felt inappropriate because my boss was hospitalized. She is back from the hospital now but still isn’t feeling well. I start my new job on the 12th 🙃 I don’t want to be a jerk but this job is not a good fit for my current lifestyle.

Standing desk people: do you get a mat or anything for your feet?

What do people think of the British Royal Family? For those of us who grew up without ridiculous monarchies why do have to keep hearing about them in the news?

I’m having an existential crisis.

Do you think modern life is possible without the use of some form of stimulants like alcohol, Xanax, Adderral, marijuana, etc?

Day to day life has become soul crushing for me in some ways and when I look around and wonder how everyone else is doing it it just looks like it’s mostly just substance abuse.

Hey all, for those who accepted offers and are starting new jobs, I recommend reaching out to your new company to ensure all materials are shipped ahead of impending lockdowns!

I’m so worried I’ll get laid off. Last week I was slammed, but this week is slow, and I’m just so anxious...

Realized I like to sit cross legged while I work and my current chair doesn’t have enough room for that. Anyone have chair recommendations? Flexible on price

Any millennials here worried about their parents retirement? My parents are set financially but I’m worried about their lack of hobbies and social life. They watch a lot of news, politics, stock market, and sports. However not much more than that. I feel I’d be fine with that if they were in their 80s or older but they’re early 60s. Anyone succeed in getting their parents to an activity filled retirement?

I have been out of work for the past 6 months, and have flooded many email boxes - applied to more than 600 job posts, have been getting a call for an interview, but after my first call with the HR, recruiter or even hiring manager, I don't seem to get past that stage! Any advice on how to get past this?