Going to be on a 2-3 week shoot and am a mom of a toddler and infant. My husband is rightfully worried about handling everything at home by himself while I’m gone, and I have major guilt leaving my children. But at the same time, I’m excited for this big moment in my career. Any advice you can share on how to make this work for everyone?

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Hire a babysitter to come help out. Can be whenever you think he’ll need a hand the most. Mornings, after work and kids’ bedtime, weekend, etc. But knowing there is an extra set of hands and arranging it ahead of time will give both of you peace of mind. I justify the expense because doing so allows me to stay confident in a career I love and not worry about what’s happening when I’m away. Enjoy the shoot!

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Can they come visit half way thru your trip to help break up the time? Perhaps a family member can also travel with your husband? Also, agree, hire someone to help your hubs.

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Could you do it on your own? Maybe dad can, then too, if given a chance. But just like you, a helping hand, babysitter or fam while you’re away would be ideal.

It may be helpful to ask friends to come over and help a bit here and there. It is a long period of time, but sounds like an exciting opportunity.

Does your gym have childcare hours? This is a big help/break for parents and we use often.

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