Got offer from 2nd choice (SC) while interviewing for 1st choice (FC), & the FC process has dragged out for so long, I had to accept SC offer first. FC knew about my offer because I reminded them multiple times, but I haven’t yet told them I accepted. Ideally if FC gave me an offer (possible after 1 more interview), I’d like to back out of SC before I start working, but I’m onboarding this week so running out of time. Do I let FC know, or still pretend I’m (unrealistically) sitting on the offer?

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Yeah I’d tell them you need to know ASAP. And honestly, I would give up on FC, as it sounds like you’re not their FC.

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I would tell FC that I need an answer tomorrow or I’m moving forward with another offer.

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This.

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