Happy Friday! What is a guy supposed to do to get some decent dates in this town? 😢 38M here if any ladies would like to chat and see what comes out of it.

My natural instinct is to assume rejection if I have conflict with a partner or don’t think my feelings are reciprocated. I’ll try to bring it up with them, but I’ll say “if you want to end this feel free” so it doesn’t hurt me (and they can say what they really mean instead of sugarcoating). Someone told me today that they just assume I’m not interested because I always seem to “run” but I’m not sure how to bring up problems/feelings otherwise. How do you approach these hard questions?

Single black female. Late 30s, no kids. Is it better to practice in a smaller market that’s close to major cities, lots of professional opportunities, but no real single professional scene? OR be in a bigger pond/major city with more professional and networking opportunities, oversaturated with lawyers of color, more competition for professional opportunities, but bigger dating pool?

Have a crush on my co-worker. He asked me out to go rock climbing one-on-one after we were texting for a while and I acted awkwardly when we went because I didn’t know if it was a date (nothing was explicitly said). Now I’m stuck in this weird limbo state where things have fizzled out but I’m re-reading texts and think he might’ve actually had a crush too and I pushed him away. Ambiguity sucks.

Has anyone been to the Zoolights at the Zoo? I have never been, I'm relatively new to the area. Is this a good event for a casual walk around date night?

Picked my show date. 2 weeks bulking then I begin show cut 💪💪💪

What point do should send the "not into you" text to someone you've just started dating? I try not to disappear without a trace

Could anyone suggest a good ladies pg in Marathalli area? Preferably single sharing or double.

Matched with a guy on Tinder. Had a great first date. We are stilling chatting on WhatsApp. But he has disappeared from my tinder (presumably, he unmatched with me). Is it typical for ppl to unmatch on Tinder when they are still interested in you?

My GF and I are dating for 2.5 yrs , She met an office colleague (he has a GF) recently who she initiated a friendship with. I feel that they interact a lot and I'm a little worried of her getting too close to him. A day ago she asked him for lunch and they were out for almost 4-5 hrs. When I expressed how I felt she keeps saying there's nothing going on. I feel that when start to get emotionally close to some other guy than SO then it's not a good sign in relationship. Am I overthinking? contd.

What is the difference between fetish and kink? I thought they were same.

Men - do you try to get out of an argument/fight by pretending like nothing happened? Why so?

My date won’t share his playlist with me (I can listen to it but he won’t share it). Just curious, is playlist a big deal to guys? We are both at early 20s and only dated for a week

For those of you in your mid-20’s, how often do you go on dates with your significant other? In a serious relationship for the first time since college and trying to gauge what folks consider normal for dating frequency (excluding nights in). Context - we’re 25, dating for 3 months, live 5 mins away from each other, decent WLB

Do men actually like feisty women? Or do you like a more submissive woman? Curious

Out with friends in Long Island, where the cute single men at 😝 (we are females)

Any F 🐠 want meet up for drinks tonight? 31/m

I went through my gf’s phone and found out she had a crush on my best friend when we first started dating (over a year ago). I suspected this at first but it hurts to have it confirmed and see her telling her friends about him. I’m not sure how I should feel since I went out of line to look through her phone.

What is the worst reaction you’ve had after giving your notice? I just gave notice and I have never had a boss that tried as hard to make me change my mind as this one. Offered me basically anything I wanted.

Hi all. Trying to move from the US to France to be with my partner. Anybody able / willing to help provide insight for getting a visa and sponsorship? Which companies are likely to sponsor an American? I have a B2 level of French. Hoping to stay in ESG / sustainability, but willing to be flexible. Thanks!

Is it normal in Amex that managers (leaders) are arrogant and doesn’t give a damn? Or is it just me with a sheer bad luck!

Best resource to learn SQL?

Any recommendations for learning Mulesoft? I used it a bit a few years ago, but I don't remember much. How much has it changed since being bought by SF?

Anyone volunteering with the upcoming CFE exam this week?

How is stay at home going to be enforced? Can I drive and pick up takeout and curb side shopping?

Big legends Guide to Three-Fund Portfolio. Yay or nay? Additionally, please share personal finance books that you recommend to newbies! Thank you and happy holidays!!✨

How much is 2k a month for a house payment? What size loan would I be able to get?

Are psychics real? Was thinking about going to one.

I have a love-hate relationship with DU.

Which RB should I start in addition to Saquon Barkley in this 1 PPR league?
-Alex Collins @ CLE
-Javorius Allen @ CLE
-Dion Lewis @ BUF
-Aaron Jones @ DET

@ND folks... How's DLF phase 3 for renting a flat? I'll be moving to Gurgaon soon and have no idea which neighbourhoods are ideal for accommodation.

100 members. Let's keep this bowl alive 😀

“– Pick one: purple or blue.

– I can’t do this, this is way too complicated.”

M. Goodwin, S. Shepard or W. Fuller to start this week, pick one. TYIA!

How is the Business Operations (BO) team at ZS?
Particularly at AC level.

I have couple of more questions:
1. WLB as I have heard is pretty pathetic at ZS. Is it same in BO team as well?
2. Salary range for the AC role? (I have 3+ years of experience post MBA, before MBA 0 years, transitioning from big 4)
3. Any on-site opportunities?
4. How are other perks at the organisation? (Apart from fixed pay)

Any F 🐠 want meet up for drinks tonight? 31/m

Be honest, do you ghost? It's such a norm now, I don't even feel bad when I do it.

What’s everyone doing this weekend 🧐

Hello everyone trust your weekend is going on well.
I'm not completely certain how this platform works but it appears I could use some likes on my profile to unlock its full usage.

I think this bowl is a great idea but it’s really difficult to foster conversations between other people.. any suggestions on how to do it?

Best place to grab a drink solo on a Thursday? Unless anyone want to join

27M and new to the area. Let’s be friends 🤝🏾

Anyone free to hangout?

29/M , I love to listen , cook and travel internationally.
I am looking for a Female who is funny, stylish and willing to try new things.

I would like to start a monthly restaurant supper club, OR if anyone has one I want to join.

What do young single people do other then date and hang with friends?

Anyone want to go on a date today? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Are there any M fish in here who travel for work frequently? 29 F, frequent business travel & looking for someone who also lives out of their suitcase :)

What’s everyone up to this weekend? 🥳

Any single females in the Evanston area want to grab a drink tonight?

340 members. What are you doing on MLK weekend?

What’s everyone doing for St Patty’s ?

Any F fishes want to hang out at the dock and go boating over the weekend?