Have you ever kept a secret for a coworker, whether it was work related or not? I feel like I am the office therpaist so my answer is yes for both situations….. The work secret involved having another job lined up…. The personal life secret involved an affair with a coworker….

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Oh yeah, that's happened with me. I've had people confide things in me and I have no idea why, to be honest. Maybe I just look like someone who doesn't gossip or something. I once had a woman I worked with tell me she had been having an affair with her friend's husband. I never told anyone, and to this day I don't know why she told me.

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Spicy!! Haha I've kept some secrets for coworkers about things like job searches and pregnancies (early on before they told the manager), but never have had anyone telling me about an affair with a coworker! I would probably have a hard time not being judgy of that one so I guess maybe that's why someone wouldn't tell me about it lol

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Oh I was judging….

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Allllll the time. We joke that I am the offce therapist because everyone is always telling me all their business. I mean stuff that I have no business knowing and then I just have to keep it to myself which can sometimes be a heavy burden to carry lol. But yes I know allll the tea on my coworkers.

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I swear ppl can sniff us out, lol

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