Hey everyone! 38F single, straight , never married, no kids looking to find a compatible M. I’m down to earth, considerate and enjoy humor and dance! I love to workout, cook, and meet up with friends and their kids. I grew up in NJ and have been a homeowner here for some time now. I love comedy shows in the winter and love hiking and beaches in the spring/summer. Vegetarian but idc if you eat meat. Always up for trying something new. I’m looking for someone who also wants to date intentionally.

My date won’t share his playlist with me (I can listen to it but he won’t share it). Just curious, is playlist a big deal to guys? We are both at early 20s and only dated for a week

if youve been talking to someone for 3 months and u catch them in a lie by stalking their friend on IG, should you call them out or is that too crazy

33 M NJ looking for someone F to explore the city, restaurant, bars and do fun activities and see where things lead to. If someone who is not looking for marriage from day 1, message me. ☺️

I went through my gf’s phone and found out she had a crush on my best friend when we first started dating (over a year ago). I suspected this at first but it hurts to have it confirmed and see her telling her friends about him. I’m not sure how I should feel since I went out of line to look through her phone.

If you aren’t straight, was there a public figure that made you realize this? My first memorable girl crush was Nigella Lawson, a British celebrity chef nearly twice my age.

27M
Any single F from hyd?

I love when randomly talking to a straight man and they out of nowhere say “I have a girlfriend” all shaky and nervous. It gives DL guys in sweatpants tease and that I’m doing something right 😂

30M, Fit, Indian, I am here to avoid arranged marriage and I don’t like dating apps :)

Any frenchies around in NYC? Where do you guys usually meet?

Hi all! I’ve been dating my bf for about 4 months now and there are some things he says/is into that make me believe he is either Bisexual or has gender dysphoria. I could really use someone’s advice who has a similar experience like this. Is anyone willing to chat? I just want to be supportive and helpful.

Added to the bucket list - one night with a woman. I am 32F.

Started talking to this guy through group a group telegram and one day he offered to pay for my lunch as I had helped him out with something. Since then he has been offering to pay for my dinners, salon visits, shopping etc and I have accepted 3-4 times. I am in a steady relationship and my boyfriend doesn’t know about this. The other guy just says he likes paying for my stuff and there’s no agenda. Is this a little weird?

Starting at BCG in about a month. How have those working long hours able to find their SO? Should I give up on looking for an SO and try the toxic hookup culture? 23/M for reference.

Female 🐠 - how bad is dating in nyc in your late 20s - early 30s? I’m going through a break up and obviously not going to look for anything serious right away but just curious on what to expect

I matched with a guy and we initially agreed to meet for the first time this coming Friday. Last Wed, he sent two messages on the app with suggestions but I wasn’t able to text back until Sat because I was traveling. He unmatched me. Am I in the wrong here? How often do you text people in the talking stage? (F in early 30s here)

How do you know if someone likes you in the beginning of dating? I met this guy online who I thought was cute and we went on a few dates. He always texted me right after the date and always initiates another date right after or within a day. He’s been sweet to me (ie when I was packing for a trip, he noticed there’s dirty dishes in the sink and he just started washing them for me) but he never texts in between dates and doesn’t really initiates much physical contact (he reciprocates when I do)

On the topic of intimacy with partners… I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and the past year his libido has dropped to zero. Mostly due to work stress (he says). Whenever I try to initiate, he always shuts me down and says he’s not in the mood. I even touch him and he gets hard but stops me as soon as I try to unzip him. We went from once a week to maybe once a quarter.

I’ve talked to him about it and he says I should take care of myself. So frustrated. 😭😭

Any lady fishes up?

What are fun things to do for 2nd date in Chicago?

Any ladies in DC want to meet up? I just moved here and looking for love, friends, and everything in between. 33M with a job and a pulse.

Starting at a new firm, What can I do to leave a good first impression?

Hi Fishes,

I am planning to switch my profile to Google Cloud. Yoe: 6

Tech Stack: C++

Please help me to kickstart my journey.

Where to start what need to be studied/practised.

Thanks in Advance.

Q. What did Jesus mean by “ He said to them, “This is what I told you while I was still with you:Everything must be fulfilled that is written about me in the Law of Moses, the Prophets and the Psalms.” Luke 24:44? I know the prophets shared about Jesus but what exactly was written about him in the law of Moses and Psalms?

I don’t trust cheese that doesn’t melt

Y’all done reported the partner OF post. How I’m supposed to get my juicy confessions fix if the good ones keep getting reported? SMH. 😞

Starting at BCG in about a month. How have those working long hours able to find their SO? Should I give up on looking for an SO and try the toxic hookup culture? 23/M for reference.

hi, I recently joined a strategy group and have only worked at IBM. I am curious how the strategy planning process works in other technology companies to compare to my own experience. wondering what is similar vs diff for this line of profession across the industry. can anyone share their company’s general process, timing, duration, who’s involved? thanks!

I have two offers- should I go with a sr product manager with Lowes or senior manager, product owner at vf (owns northface,timberland brands). Any suggestions compensation is the same

Can you help in listing out companies in Chennai that offer permanent WFH
#thoughtworks #Cisco #atlassian

What can I expect in the oracle welcome kit?

Sooo

Recently started a new job and got completely fleeced by internal politics and am not gelling with leadership.

I had another offer from a cool firm - what’s the best way to ask if they would consider me again?

Just curious, how much do Partners make at a firm

Hey all! Australian in Canada hoping to return home ASAP. Are any of the consulting firms hiring now?

Hope everyone in Victoria is coping during these times.

Anyone looking for a room mate in Sydney?

How does this work?

I have an unexpected take home case study interview that requires Tableau. Obviously Tableau is not just something people have on their personal computers due to the cost. How do I go about this?

Soooo lykeee...when do we stop talking about ourselves and start some sort of informal NYC professionals hangout?

Going to the Flying Cock today at 1:30 with a group of friends (early and mid-30s females) for bottomless brunch and 🏈. Boys, come meet us! 

What’s the age group here? Any 30s 🐠🐟

Bored for the night M (25) in NYC. Typically described as tall, dark, handsome, and had too much caffeine/etc tn so wide awake and willing to entertain ppl until I get tired. Hmu w DMs/comments/IGs/etc if ur in a similar mental space 😂

Anyone wana be my friend? Moving to Jersey City the first week of April.

Looking for a female date to go to bemelmans bar tonight
I am a 35M Brit Indian. I have only 2 abs and great sense of humor. Also I’m only 5”5. Lord blessed me with superior quant skills for the lack of vertical reach. Thank you.

What are the best sports bars to meet guys on a Sunday afternoon?

Any single woman interested in getting a drink tonight? 34 M

What if we turn this into a 50/50 ratio event (say max 12 people with sign ups in a google sheet) instead of just sliding in DMs? 🤔🫥

Any fish going out in the east village tonight? Mid 30s?

Anyone here down to hang out sometime, I’m a 26 year old guy (pretty socially awkward but super genuine), just been feeling lonely, if anyone is down lemme know

This bowl is slowwww. Is there anyone that wants to spice it up and do something fun?

Any 🐠es interested in having a meet up this month?

So I just recently got into dating after a break up 3 months ago. I joined some dating apps and have been getting quite a few matches. I’ve never dated anyone like to a point of going on traditional dates. Basically, I have no clue what to do on a date once i have one planned. Like I’ve been on a few and it’s been just talking but I guess I have no clue what to do after. I’m probably just rambling at this point but basically I need advice on actual dates and how to feel it out and what to do. Ty

35 Male,
I love to work hard but make time for play. Currently in the Air National Guard. I am thinking of starting my company one day.

Are there any black single men preferably childless between the ages of 36-45 in this group? Would be amazing if you lived in NJ

Just looking to meet someone here, a little about me, I’m a 27 years old guy , work in finance, love playing tennis and eating Italian food. Also I have aspergers.

Thinking of moving to Skillman, NJ for a role but I’m a bit concerned that it’s way too suburban. Any idea which neighboring town would be a good fit instead? Single, female (30), looking to make friends, date and build a life!