Hey everyone, moral issue here. My older brother is struggling with money and his mental health. I’m not so good with the mental health stuff but I do have a Robinhood account that has ~5k in it that I could give him to help him feel more comfortable. I make a tc of about 100k at 25 and he makes 50k working 2 jobs at 32. I can make that 5k back later in life, it would mean more to help him now when he needs it. Thoughts? All comments welcome. NOTE: I did help him find a therapist.

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I think it’s a personal decision that depends on your relationship with your brother. I don’t think you are obligated to do so, especially if you don’t feel like he will use it appropriately. I would treat it as a gift and not a loan.

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I would do it with a couple of considerations:
1. Is he going to use it appropriately
2. Is your relationship such that he won’t feel bad about needing support from a younger sibling (like this won’t hurt your relationship or worsen his state)
3. Are there other forms of support that will help him more

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