Hey fish - needing some advice. I am leading a DEI group and as I learn about my colleagues backgrounds and experience, I am starting to feel like I am not the right person to lead simply because of my lack of experiences. DEI is so important to me but I can’t help but feel out of place. For context, I’m a white female and grew up in a small town with little diversity

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Compassion and empathy are integral to successful leadership. You don't have to have lived the experiences of those you're leading to lead. You need to clear obstacles for them, hold space, and amplify their voices. That is how you be an effective leader. Make 'em proud!

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I think the fact that you can recognize your shortcomings and are open to learning is indicative that you do have a place there. Leadership is not just about having all the right experiences or knowing a lot, it's also about having the wisdom to recognize when it's better to listen to others.

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Your background makes you perfect for the role. Not many people have your experience. Just be honest. Your insight would be valuable.

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Build a small team of people feom diverse background who can help you stay in line. You sound humble - maintain that humility and willingness to learn. You'll be great!

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