Hey Fishes,

So I have recently broke up with my ex. I downloaded bumble and aisle in search of nothing fixed. Now I met two separate people from each of the apps. First from bangalore and the second one from Delhi. I from the very beginning wanted to go ahead with the one I found from bangalore. She is simple and sweet and beautiful. But now as I found the second I am a bit confused. Should I continue chatting with both or hold it back right now?

I got an email last night from a 7th-grade parent because her son said I mentioned the words "male privilege" in class, and she is very concerned about how that is related to ELA (she said "reading"), and she is concerned about this being taught in public schools. To be clear, I didn't do a lesson on this subject but we did discuss rights versus privileges. I've had multiple parents contact the school/get upset with me because of things like his. It's exhausting... Thoughts?

I’m in SF but nervous to officially come out to my friends even though I’m sure they all know/assume anyway. :(

So I have been seeing a guy for 4 months. We have a pay disparity.. he earns less than I do (by quite a bit). He has mentioned a few times that he’s worried I’ll get bored of him when I know he can’t afford the same things I can. I think we are beginning to move past this, but now he’s starting to mention things like ‘I am really broke this month’, and last weekend he told me his mum has lost her job and he’ll have to probably pay her rent. I have a lot of sympathy for his situation … tbc

Do you think it is easier to overcome cheating in a relationship that has or does not have children involved? Listening to an interesting podcast and would love to know peoples take on the topic

I don't have any friends in banglore. It is hard for me to find friends cause i am always that aloof kid who in addition is not straight so can't even bond with my teammates. How do people live like this. Even my flatmates don't talk . : (

Ladies, did you change your last name after getting married? I’m worried about the impact it will have on my publications.

How much of a nest egg would you expect a couple to collectively need in order to retire at 40 and live relatively comfortable (not lavish)?

I do NOT want children. And yet, recently, I’m desperate to spend time with my niece and nephew. I’m panicking that this is the beginning of me changing my mind.

Has the overturning of Roe v. Wade significantly impacted anyone's relationships? I lost two friends who were pro-life and on the verge of losing another. Wondering if I'm being too rigid in my perspective or if this is normal in Texas

A question for parents of young kids, we are moving to DC i will be with Pwc and my husband is an attorney. I have an 8 month old and I am trying to figure out what would be better daycare or nanny. To the parents out there how do you manage to pick up your kids from school? Also any tips on how to juggle both.

My baby slaps the boob while nursing the same way I used to slap the bag in uni

Why is it that a lot of couples I know living in big cities are in open relationship?

Midlife career change into teaching, because I love language and really get a lot from seeing teens grow into themselves... but I just don't know if I can keep up.

51 yo/ 3kids/ 5a-11p

Does anyone here work for Axiom or know someone who does and, if so, how difficult is it to stay fully engaged?

Does anyone else feel like having kids is the only acceptable reason to not be in the office 24/7? If I choose not to have children, do I not have any valid reason to have a life outside work?

Comforting others:
When someone tells me bad news regarding their health, I say everything I am supposed to say (I’m sorry to hear that, I’m here for you, etc) EXCEPT “everything is going to be ok”. Because I can’t guarantee that and I really don’t know if everything is going to be ok. I was taken aback recently when a friend told me I am calloused and cold-hearted for not being able to say those words. Is she right? Should I start saying this for the purposes of providing comfort only??

During the pandemic I dove into my self care (found a therapist, learned I was having seizures and got on meds for that). My journey has been difficult and not pretty to watch. Somewhere along the line I feel like my fiancé saw too much. I no longer feel like romantic parters and instead feel like we have a “caretaker/patient” type relationship. I don’t feel sexy or attractive anymore. I talked to him about this and he feels bad. But I feel guilty for bringing it up. Anyone else had this issue?

I just had to send my husband away in an ambulance. I’m not allowed to go with him or even go to the hospital. I don’t know what to do. I can’t even be there for my husband.

I'm interested in starting a coaching business as a side hustle, has anyone does this? I was looking a Life Coach certifications. Thoughts?

Turks and Caicos or Bermuda for a long weekend in February/March?

RIA located in Hauppauge, NY is looking for an administrative assistant. Preference given to those with RIA experience. Let me know if you would like to have a conversation .

Hi fishes , I want to know in which month of the year , Cognizant will give yearly increment.

Ctc - 222381
Operation Executive
fresher 2022
Can anyone tell me the in hand salary?
location infosys bhubaneshwar

My company will be looking for a chemical product manager soon.

How many people here hold VRA? I've been adding to my holdings (not large) but so far community is great and part of Amazon Partnership for advertising. Already some adoption which means the management team will start to burn the token supply

Hi..
What is the hierarchy structure - Senior Software Engineer, Senior Specialist, Consultant, Senior Consultant? Are they all in E2 band?

Hi fishes

What do we get as a diwali gift in Gartner? Do we have a Diwali Party?

Anyone know of any great articles or advice for building a multi-sided platform at the beginning of that platform’s life? I’m building a video platform for education (user-generated chunks, kind of like YouTube or TikTok but specific to education vertical) and I’m thinking about early strategy for content acquisition, would love to hear what other entrepreneurs have done. Both strategic and tactical resources appreciated!
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Interviewing for FTI Consulting Forensic Litigation consulting in 1 month. Anyone work for this firm and have any thoughts on them?

Hello. Any websites or lists of the agencies in Madrid and Barcelona? Thinking of sending my portfolio out there...

Hey Fishes,

Would love your support of 11 ♥️ as need to activate dms.

#offtopic
Hello fishes,

I'm not from Mumbai and am planning to visit Mumbai for 5 10 days to do a workation kind of thing. Can you suggest something budget (like hostel or anything else). Preferably not in secluded areas.
DMs are welcome

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What is the average salary of a Senior 1?

What's your favorite ski resort and why? Any tips and recommendations for saving money, sharing transpo, best time to avoid crowds?

Do married man have rights to fine Date😉😉

Hi Guruji,
How to find date in WFH scenario?

Fishbowl Tinder ban Gaya ? Harassment k Case hue Toh ???

Any married person in this bowl need guidance 😥

Any thoughts abt married couple ?