Any married person in this bowl need guidance 😥

Parents - do any of you truly regret having kids?

Do you ever wish you could just go home at 6, play with your kids till they fall asleep, and then have a glass of wine with your wife before an early bedtime & sleep 8 hours?

My aunt recently passed away, leaving behind 2 young girls (16 and 12 years old). I’m trying my best to be there for them and pray for them, and have been asking people to pray for them as well. Until I started question what is the point of asking people to pray for them? I know God hears my prayers, so why do we ask people to pray ?

My best friend has Celeste!

How long did you date your SO before moving in with them?

What is "Summer Streets" in NYC? Worth doing with the wife?

Are there some in this group that are here to chat as well? I’m a married M, but wouldn’t mind a friend that’s here to chat

Salam. 23M here - all my life I’ve had my back on our faith - never really prayed but had imaan (I guess). After bouts of depression from girl problems (🙄), issues within immediate family, being disappointed expectations I had for myself, etc. I’ve been working on bettering my situation over the years. Faith is the only area where I think I need more guidance. Having trouble relating to friends or family about this. Anyone else been thru something similar? How have you connected back to Islam?

My Dad and brother didn’t even text me happy birthday 😔

Everyone likes me because I'm a doormat with no boundaries. I do anything and say anything to make people happy. I will think what you think I should think. Will you be my friend?

How do you and your partner (married or not married) split financials?

I have a para/assistant teacher that just wants to argue over everything. “You’re the teacher, why do I have to assess the children during break out rooms?” We have 8 kids, and I am only asking her to do 3! The other para is doing 3 and I and doing 2 with IEPs!!! How am I supposed to handle this in a professional manner virtually? Plus she is frustrated b/c o can’t explain everything. I keep telling her it’s all new to me too. Grace is not a word in her vocab. And I am feeling graceless.

Any new dads out there just want a chill 9-5 job and spend more time with the kids? I’m 35 and the rat race is killing me and I’m valuing time with family more than money at this point.

Been with my GF since college and we recently hit the 4 year mark. 1-2 years into our relationship I found out she had instances of micro-cheating (flirting with guys, talking to ex’s etc - but nothing physical) and we addressed it. To her credit and my knowledge, she’s been apologetic and great at respecting boundaries since, but I still feel the pain from her actions years ago (and have talked to her about it). Feeling lost about whether to just leave or to try and work things out

Any moms on here that absolutely love their company and feel 100% supported?

Comforting others:
When someone tells me bad news regarding their health, I say everything I am supposed to say (I’m sorry to hear that, I’m here for you, etc) EXCEPT “everything is going to be ok”. Because I can’t guarantee that and I really don’t know if everything is going to be ok. I was taken aback recently when a friend told me I am calloused and cold-hearted for not being able to say those words. Is she right? Should I start saying this for the purposes of providing comfort only??

I miss being able to innocently and naively fall in love and trust that things will work out. After being so disappointed twice in a row i just feel like now i cannot trust guys anymore and what they say. :( once u learn something, you cannot unlearn

I just came home sobbing because I got too drunk at my female best friends house and her husbands male friend tried to take advantage of me when we were left alone in a hot tub. My boyfriend didn’t ask if I was okay but instead screamed at me, threw things and left the house. Dumping him is the only logical answer?? Am I crazy?

Boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot for a while. He broke up with me, but then we decided to try to make it work after we talked. I don’t want to end my relationship. Any ideas how to save and salvage a relationship on the bricks of ending

Ladies, did you change your last name after getting married? I’m worried about the impact it will have on my publications.

Java vs Nodejs vs GO

Which is best for market opportunities for Backend Developers?

Should someone switch from Java to NodeJs or GO having total 4 years of experience in IT Industry?

What’s the general comp for EM level at Strategy&? Assuming a Chicago or comparavle COL

PwC CMAAS or A&M?

At some Big 4 companies there is a Partner / Principal group that has equity and are part owners of the business and an equivalent Managing Director group that does not have equity and are essentially employees.

How does it work at McKinsey / Bain ? Do those same distinctions exist across partner types, owner vs non owner?

How long it'll take to get promoted from P3 to P4 for a leteral entry in LTI?
How much hike is expected for the same?

Do technology companies go thru a digital transformation? How?

McKinsey is hiring for digital roles!! Message me if you're interested and happy to chat about my experiences there or provide a referral

Is bigbasket Bangalore is good to join as a senior engineer??
Is work life balance and job security is issue there ??

Traveling next week. What hotel has the best promotion now?

At least Kanye followed his words of running for president unlike Oprah.

I am looking for sr Engineer/ sr executive/Assistant manager positions in Manufacturing/SCM areas . Kindly refer me for any open positions.

Any agencies hiring? (Planning on staying away from Rogers and pharma)

Is it still worth to get lexus 2021 nx300 when 2022 is fully redesigned and got all new tech.
The dealer is giving 3k off msrp.

Kittle (coming back from IR) or Gesicki (vs. Houston)?

I think the 49ers will ease Kittle back from his injury and have him primarily block against the Arizona defense.

However, Miami may primarily run the ball due to the game script vs. Houston.

What do you guy think?

Best consulting firms without the massive ego?

How has your experience been starting a new job during the global pandemic?

Does IQVIA release offer in the name of Foresight IT Solutions And Consulting India Private Limited?
Please confirm asap.

I am working in AS400 production support. I would like change to another domain. Any suggestions on which domain to move?

Fishbowl Tinder ban Gaya ? Harassment k Case hue Toh ???

Any thoughts abt married couple ?

Do married man have rights to fine Date😉😉

Someone once said, if you are entrepreneurial enough, any app can be used as a dating app. I see that happening here on fishbowl when i came across this bowl 😂

Hi Guruji,
How to find date in WFH scenario?