How did you guys cope with office work when you were having tough time with your partners ?
I am getting very frustrated both personal and professional side

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Never disclose personal life with office colleague. Whenever someone ask - just smile.

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It will certainly effect you have to keep telling yourself this is your bread and butter personal life is not in your hands but this is in your hands and you don’t deserve to let it slip away from your hands

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My question is, "Did these personal issues affect your productivity and if yes, how did you cope up with us "

It affected mine. I held it within me for a very long time but one day ended up telling me my manager...thankfully she was very understanding and gave me space and time to recover. Try initiating a conversation with leads...it might work

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