Has anyone successfully pursued a relationship with someone they met at work? An MD I am really attracted to has been chasing me, but I am nervous about what the repercussions could be if it doesn't work out. Still, it's tempting

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Personal option and life experience: Never shit where you eat. It’s very tempting, but honestly may not be worth it in the long run. Remember he is the senior so in the even things don’t work out, who do you think the company will value more: you or the MD? Just food for thought. Best of luck on deciding! Either way it’s always a lesson ya know?

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I married my co-worker 😊 We’ve been married since 2006 and worked together some and apart. Currently we are back in the same company.

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I have not but I know of a few doctors who are married to nurses. What’s the role of that MD in your work environment? Like how closely do you actually work with him?

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I think you could pursue as this is not unusual at all in healthcare. I would also check with HR first. Many companies have policies when dating coworkers especially ones that could be considered in a supervisory role. Though if this is in a hospital then the MD likely doesn’t even work for the same institution as you.

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