How did your family decide to settle down in your hometown? I chose to settle down in the midwest where family and friends are close and I’m central enough to be able to essentially go anywhere in the US without much trouble

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Oh, well, as for my parents and larger family as a whole, they have been living in the same area for several generations. A cluster of small towns in the same county in the middle of Illinois. Now my generation is the one to spread out a bit lore. I am currently living in a small city about an hour and a half away

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