How important are first impressions ?

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Don't matter at all, go all-in on fart jokes and your favorite porn sites

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When I try creating first impressions I behave like a stupid person. Be yourself

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I'm of the school of thought that it's actually the second impression that is more important 🤔

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Important. Just like second, third, fourth-quarter etc. impressions

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Very important. Plenty of behavioral science to back this up too.

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Important esp if you think you made a poor first impression. there's some study out there that it takes X number more positive impressions to change someone's negative impression.

Depends on the circumstances. Is it professional or social? Do you have anything at stake? Whatever the scenario, just relax and be authentic. You'll be fine.

Important, unless your first impression is a 5 second intro only

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