How rigid are you with sleep times? Example - Have a 1 year old l. Ideal nap is 10:30-12. Sometimes he sleeps less, and that’s OK. Sometimes he sleeps more but my SO wants to make sure he is awake by 12.

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If he is getting a full night of sleep, don’t necessarily see an issue with this. Our typical nap time is ~2 hours but if he went down later the night before we will let him exceed.

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We have always looked at wake windows and total daily sleep to make sure things were broadly tracking. But we absolutely let our kid sleep longer if they need it. Rarely would wake up. I’m assuming you are on two naps right now given that early window. Best I can say so that two naps is brutal cuz it’s so hard to plan for anything. One nap is around the corner and things get way more predictable with timing and length.

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Child led until they are 4. 4-5 to transition to a routine. Routine once they are in KG

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