I am 29F and have recently moved to NY , I have been with a guy on 3 dates but am unsure if he’s single as he claims. Are there FB groups other than AWDTSG NYC where I could ask NY ladies this question? Please help, I like him but this voice in my gut is stopping me from seeing him again

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Man if I found out the girl I was dating was posting my photo/information to ask strangers if I was lying, that would be an immediate deal-breaker for me. If you don't trust him that much, listen to your gut, but don't do this lol

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If your gut is telling you something, most likely it’s correct. What you can do since you like him, keep seeing him but be cautious, make no commitments, and no sex until you are sure. If he asks, you can be truthful, at least you owe him that, and be ready to walk if he wants more until you are comfortable. If I liked you that much, I would do whatever it took to assure you, including having you meet my friends , and give you time without pressure.

Trust your gut. NYC is full of scumbags. The calls from the wives and girlfriends get old very fast.

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