I am currently a receptionist in a small v.a clinic. I was offered a rep position in a hospital 2 weeks ago, &I am currently going thru the hiring/ background process. They have been quiet for a week (I know, I know they take long but I am beginning to get anxiety.) I want to leave this clinic I am in but I am heart broken, my boss & I are kind of close. But this clinic does not have that stability when it comes to pay & I do have a little fam to think about.
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I don't know how to approach them when I need to tell them. I am planning to wait for next week when we get paid, just incase they want to let me go right then &there. Someone had told me something that stayed stuck with me "u can't expect to grow if u stay in 1 place" & I believe that being in a hospital is my dream but I don't know what to expect. I am sure that they will be strict, I won't get away with half the stuff I do here. I'm starting to think I'm getting scared. Everyday it's either I feel bad, I feel happy, I am scared. I am nervous. I just wish I could rip it off like a band aid but I feel like I'd be pulling off my arm as well. A part of me is hoping I'd fall thru the cracks with the background or something so i can avoid telling them anything, another part of me does not want to say anything &just block everybody lol. Another part of me is willing to stay till the last day & Train, after all they deserve to know. I guess this is a rant. A place for advice, I have no idea. Just wish I knew what to do. What should I do?
BTW not only is it unstable here, there is ALOT of shady things that happen but u learn to like ppl as ppl, not managers. If u know what I mean.

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My countdown is 17 days till my start date. I could at least put a 2weeks notice, even though it's not fair that I knew practically a whole month. I want to tell them but they may hold my last check & 1 full that they owe.
I feel like they know what's going on because they have gotten nicer also. I've been driving my friends & family crazy with this dilemma, & their response is "just leave" but I can't, I have a dignity & I am loyal to my work, &ppl.

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Loyalty is great. But think this: if your company decided to let you go, do you think they would doubt their decision so much just because they like you as a person? I don't think so... today you go, tomorrow another person will be there ) everyone can be replaced. So please, come down and do your thing. If they really like to keep you they might initiate a conversation and made you an offer of raise, extra benefits, etc. But if they just react with "Oooo, we gonna miiiiss yooooou", - then this is a great sign to go, no regrets.

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If you have an official written offer for your new job, then you have nothing to worry about to transition once you give the standard two week notice. But it is possible that your current employer may counter-offer you to stay if they feel that you’re a valuable asset to their clinic. All feelings aside you have to do what’s best for you and your family.

Separate business and friendship and give them your notice. As you go through your career your learn everyone is replaceable and an employer would lay you off if needed. Moving forward may I suggest having good relationships with co-workers and keeps friendships out of the office. Good luck!

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