I am so frustrated. I can't seem to pass interviews—not even at retail stores. Even with my medication under control and experience in the positions I applied for, I still get nervous, and I've already received over 10 rejections... Just venting.

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I'm right there with you. I've been doubling my Adderall before interviews and still never feel like I come across well. I wish written interviews were a thing. I'm so much better with written communication than verbal...

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In my experience, it might be best for you to consult with a doctor about something to help control your anxiety during the interview—specifically, ask if there is a fast-acting anxiolytic available. In my case—as an immigrant—I struggle a bit with professional English, and that alone makes me nervous.

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I’m sorry you’re struggling. I think we’ve all been in that situation. It’s probably not necessarily the way you interview. It’s just such a competitive job market right now. Every employer is probably interviewing dozens of applicants for the same job. It’s just hard to get hired.

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