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The other day I found myself fidgeting, my legs move unconsciously, i tremble too at times. I become wobbly. I'm an emotional person and going through a bad time in life. The person i expect to be beside me gives no shit about me. I've no friends to be vulnerable with so ranting here
Hahaha..
When we male face 10x such things you all laugh and don't give a shit...
We are dying every day but you think we are piece of shit..
In time I will not survive like this, but you all will pay the price in long run..
Give intro.. so that we can get to know your background...and your aspirations l...ctc l, etc..
Any marriage issue ? Or still unmarried.
Marriage was delayed. I was emotional and was ranting or you can say sharing with my partner and he just shut me up and said painful things where he said disrespectful stuff. After that I couldn't take it. Took a few days to sit down and realise that he never listens to my pain and discomfort or even cares to provide some consolation or you know just be there? After and in between work he has the time to watch every game that it is possible for a human to watch. He has time to respond to silly things, talk about his days and how busy he is but never would I find him calling me and asking me about ME. How I feel and etc. It's me pushing this and that and we had a lot of work done personally in between but not a moment where we had the quality time. I lend ears as I like to listen to people when they share their stories, but it doesn't mean I don't have mine. I push aside and aside but there comes a time where I wanna be heard. Suppressed all that, but when I'm emotional don't i deserve his time and ear to myself genuinely?
Anyway after that fight our frequency of conversation lessened, I did a lot of thinking. Why is he doing like that, he would reach back, he would come and listen to me. He would love me back.. but all I got was, hey let's meet up, you're always saying all these, past is past, no I didn't say anything, ok if you say I'm wrong ,fine I'm wrong you happy?
Like it never bothered him.
I waited still, then one day i explained him what I'm expecting, he heard and said yes ok hmm.. I wanted him to make me feel special and sometimes listen? Be more emotionally open. He said ok meet up. That's it.
Still I waited. And waited, and he shoots some blank texts and that's it. Nothing more. After two years of relationship which is on the verge of marriage, don't i deserve a concern that's worth something?
Like something!
Bro what happened? Pls tell you problem so that people here can give you some suggestions
I can relate bro , you need to take a break to clear your perspective.Consider therapy.
Hey! How are you feeling now? Let me know if it gets better, I’m going through something similar and having a tough time getting through this!